For people who used an anonymous donor. Did you get her a gift? What was it?

[Anonymous]

16:21 again. Regarding the life event, I don't know that I would send something then. She could, in theory, back out at any time, and, like you said, you don't want it to seem like pressure. I would just mention the life event in any card or letter you leave for her after retrieval. A lot of donor coordinators will also pass along questions and messages, so maybe you could ask the donor coordinator to pass along a message that you're thinking of her (the donor) during this eventful time in her life.