Signs of Cheating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Changes in the position of the passenger seat of the car.

Secrecy when writing on the computer. General disinterest in discussing your relationship. Missing condoms (no joke, that's how I found out...counted them during the afternoon, and then later in the day).

Why were you using condoms with your spouse?

Not the PP but we use condoms too. I lose my sex drive on the pill.

[Anonymous]

To the PP: My wife lost her drive on the pill and Depo, but did the IUD and it came back with a vengeance and I don't have to feel like I am am screwing a balloon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To the PP: My wife lost her drive on the pill and Depo, but did the IUD and it came back with a vengeance and I don't have to feel like I am am screwing a balloon.

I actually don't mind condoms, and my DH doesn't either, but I have an appointment for an IUD. I'm just scared. I heard it hurts and sometimes there is more cramping.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am the iPhone PP.

As the cheated-on wife, I am sorry to say that other signs did in fact include changes in the passenger seat of his car. A large and abrupt uptick in concern for his appearance. Being gone from the house at night with flimsy explanations ("a big game is on at the sports bar") ("yes, four nights in a row").

And one I didn't put together until well after the fact: the prick started manscaping his crotch for the first time in ~30 years. I didn't actually see his pretty new pubes but realized that was why he went to Rodman's and bought hair clippers that -- wait for it -- he never actually used on his head. Yet I'd hear the whirring clipper noise in the bathroom once in a while.

Omg I need a drink all over again.

This is so pathetic. Be happy to be done with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Changes in the position of the passenger seat of the car.

Secrecy when writing on the computer. General disinterest in discussing your relationship. Missing condoms (no joke, that's how I found out...counted them during the afternoon, and then later in the day).

Why were you using condoms with your spouse?

Not the PP but we use condoms too. I lose my sex drive on the pill.

IUD?

[Anonymous]

Signs my husband could have seen if he was observant or intuitive: generally happier mood. In particular, much less nagging about things that chronically bug me. Absolutely no more nagging about how we don't have enough sex. Perfume. Sexy underwear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Signs my husband could have seen if he was observant or intuitive: generally happier mood. In particular, much less nagging about things that chronically bug me. Absolutely no more nagging about how we don't have enough sex. Perfume. Sexy underwear.

So I guess you are divorced?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Signs my husband could have seen if he was observant or intuitive: generally happier mood. In particular, much less nagging about things that chronically bug me. Absolutely no more nagging about how we don't have enough sex. Perfume. Sexy underwear.

So I guess you are divorced?

Nope. Still married. Affair is over and done with.

[Anonymous]

Cell phone never ringing- on vibrate
New underwear cologne, perfume
Working out
Picking fights

[Cloud]

Anonymous wrote:Losing weight, hitting the gym after work, new clothes, hair, cologne/perfume are classic. Increased business travel...etc etc etc

This is what I have observed in people as well... in addition, cryptic answers about the future of family life/ moving/ jobs/ kids and major life decisions. But hugely the increased attention to personal appearance, hygiene, mysterious disappearances after work for a couple hours.

[Anonymous]

Staying out all night and claiming you blacked out after getting a hickey from a stranger

[Cloud]

Anonymous wrote:Staying out all night and claiming you blacked out after getting a hickey from a stranger

tee hee

[Anonymous]

Cloud wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Losing weight, hitting the gym after work, new clothes, hair, cologne/perfume are classic. Increased business travel...etc etc etc

This is what I have observed in people as well... in addition, cryptic answers about the future of family life/ moving/ jobs/ kids and major life decisions. But hugely the increased attention to personal appearance, hygiene, mysterious disappearances after work for a couple hours.

My DH has always been vain so I will have to look for another sign.

[Anonymous]

The iphone/smartphone. It's all still in there, even if messages are deleted. A sophisticated sleuther can retrieve deleted texts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The iphone/smartphone. It's all still in there, even if messages are deleted. A sophisticated sleuther can retrieve deleted texts.

Is this true? How does this work?