Would you have a one night stand if your spouse wouldn't find out?

Anonymous
No, never. Sort of the point of getting married right: eternally faithful and all that.
Anonymous
No - one night of sex is not worth the guilt.
Anonymous
Yes and I have. He has too - the difference is that he told me.
Anonymous
No. There's always the possibility that DH would find out, or that it would make our relationship weird even if he didn't. It isn't worth it. Plus the thought of it possibly ever affecting my son's life is unacceptable to me.
Anonymous
No. Would be tempted, but no. I love and respect my DH too much.
Anonymous
If you've traveled for work extensively, you probably have- I can't even count the #
Anonymous
Yes. Resounding yes. I believe my DH to be closet gay.
Anonymous
No. I love my husband and believe it or not, have no interest in other men. I'm happy to talk to them, converse with them, work with them, etc. but I do not look at them any further than that.
Anonymous
Zero desire to stray. Sexually my husband is skilled, generous, and always willing. Why would I indulge with someone else? Perhaps some flirtation and intellectual conversation over dinner, but that's it.
Anonymous
FBO wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If I was attracted to the guy, hell yes.


So would you make a move on the guy? Or wait for him to try it first?

Just curious.


Assuming I was at a bar or similar situation, I would probably try striking up a conversation with him. Depending on how easy he was to talk to, I would probably make subtle pass to see if he was interested in the offer.
Anonymous
So...all of you who said yes need to seriously re-evaluate your marriages. This is sick.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No, because I would know even if DH didn't. I wouldn't be able to sit through a meal he prepared for me, a gift he gave me, or a kind word without feeling awful.

Ah, well my husband does none of those things for me ever so it wouldn't be that hard for me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No, because I would know even if DH didn't. I wouldn't be able to sit through a meal he prepared for me, a gift he gave me, or a kind word without feeling awful.


This. Nothing worse you can do to yourself than compromise your values or betray a loved one.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:So...all of you who said yes need to seriously re-evaluate your marriages. This is sick.


Not all of us are lucky to have a marriage like yours.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you've traveled for work extensively, you probably have- I can't even count the #


Have you tested yourself? You know, for stds and all. Honestly you sound like a man whore/whore.
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