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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah that sounds like he's cheating on you. Tell him your 2 year old found it somehow. Be frank and direct. Sorry

Lying about its discovery is not frank and direct.

The fact that she was snooping is evidence enough the marriage is in serious trouble. She should own that.

She should own that? Bullshit. If snooping was justified and in this case it was, I'd hardly say she's to blame for doing the snooping. Nobody's forcing him to have an affair or text other women that he misses them and is still in love with them.

I agree with what others have posted: screen shot it along with the phone number it was sent to. Build up all the evidence you're going to need in divorce proceedings.

[Anonymous]

Because, yeah, if you find out that your husband may have strayed, even if briefly, you should divorce him. Get the best scorched earth lawyer now sister.

Signed,

An Embittered Divorcee Who Feels Better If Others Follow The Route She Chose

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I hijack just to ask how do you take a screen shot? Thanks.

On the iphone you push the center bottom button and the top right power button at the same time.

Thanks, that would have taken me a lifetime to guess (and I guess correctly a fair amount).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because, yeah, if you find out that your husband may have strayed, even if briefly, you should divorce him. Get the best scorched earth lawyer now sister.

Signed,

An Embittered Divorcee Who Feels Better If Others Follow The Route She Chose

14:07 here. I'm none of those things and if she wants to work it out, then she should knock herself out doing so and I wish her all the best. But if she confronts him without the evidence, he most certainly will lie lie lie and get nowhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because, yeah, if you find out that your husband may have strayed, even if briefly, you should divorce him. Get the best scorched earth lawyer now sister.

Signed,

An Embittered Divorcee Who Feels Better If Others Follow The Route She Chose

14:07 here. I'm none of those things and if she wants to work it out, then she should knock herself out doing so and I wish her all the best. But if she confronts him without the evidence, he most certainly will lie lie lie and get nowhere.

13:59 I mean.

[Anonymous]

Definitely cheated with her. 100%. It's so obvious that I'm surprised you didn't collapse in a heap on the floor and then confront him the next time you saw him. What's up OP?

[Anonymous]

OP needs to have a martini in hand for him when her husband comes home, and ensure troublesome children do not meddle in his affairs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP,

+ Married men do not send Happy Valentine's Day texts to colleagues, past or present. Or to anyone except their wife or mother or grandmother!

+ You feel like a shrew asking him to do chores, while he returns from a work trip and texts a colleague all the time. If he has time to text a colleague, he has time to do chores.

Why are you so convinced he's not cheating?

That's BS. I received a few (text and/or email) and there is nothing at all going on. They also wish me a Happy Mother's Day, and I'm not their mother.

[Anonymous]

Or I come get u. Nooooo dws

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or I come get u. Nooooo dws

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I hijack just to ask how do you take a screen shot? Thanks.

On the iphone you push the center bottom button and the top right power button at the same time.

But if she does this, won't the screen shot be on his phone? Shouldn't she forward it to herself first?

[Anonymous]

technology aside - (it can be traced as a text if need be, later on)

what do you want to do OP?

when you decide that, act on it.

[Anonymous]

Jesus lady, get your head out of thr sand. He's cheating. Your marriage is over

[Anonymous]

And just think, if you had just kept your TWO year old off the iPhone just like any halfway decent parent, you could continue to live in ignorant bliss.

Hopefully your husband gets the kids in the divorce.

[Anonymous]

Three year old post