I should just butt out, right?

[Anonymous]

I think you should focus on your own social life, based on your preoccupation with your friend's sounds like you need one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend is in the same situation, except she FOUND proof that her fiance is cheating. She called me and several of her other friends up crying all weekend, and now she's ignoring us and going back to him. She even posted a picture of them together on Facebook, as if to send us a message (WTF?). I'm just about to dump her as a friend... it's just too pathetic.

I eventually ended my marriage, but early on as things went bad I knew to keep some things from my best friends. If they knew about some of what my husband had been up to or how he was treating me generally, it would have required taking steps I just wasn't prepared to take at that time. Nobody wants to be considered pathetic. I certainly didn't.

Your friend isn't there yet, PP. Be compassionate and hold off on the name-calling.

This!
You are going to quit your friend just because she is going thru a season of stupidity and pain?
We are all entitled to our seasons of stupid. Just stay out of the relationship, distance yourself a bit(she's probably already distancing herself) and be ready to be a comfort to her when she reaches out(and she will, trust me once shit hits the fan she will reach out).