
Different. Soccer/baseball you need to have the same outfit because you're playing another team. A 4 year old ballet class does nothing outside of class, although I would expect for a recital they would probably want them in more elaborate costumes. this is JUST for class. |
OP, clearly you are ot familiar with ballet. It is part of the discipline. Not that different than playing an instrument and showing up with the proper piece. Somehow, I am sure some whiner will debate this. But you get the idea. If you don't want to play the part, choose something without a requirement to it. Good luck. Not everything bends for you. That might be your most important lesson. |
Not different. You are only considering the soccer games. My son also had specific practice uniform requirements as well, including shirt color for scrimmages. |
When they're in uniform - same color tights, same color leotard - it levels the playing field, as there are no distractions.
My daughter's studio requires that hair be pulled back and that no distracting jewelry be kept on. |
you can buy clothes dye and change the color yourself |
Target only carries pink and black - if youare lucky to find them in stock. A lot of places ask for other colors - purple, lavender, silver. Very annoying esp. when they encourage you to purchase from them. |
![]() We are talking 4 year olds having fun - I am sure if this is something any child wants to pursue serioulsy down the road, it makes more sense to follow the ballet rules. But the odds are, a child will lose interest or realize that they don't have what it takes before the age of 9 so discipline is not really required. |
So true! The discipline part of things gets so lost today in the "everyone's a winner" culture. |
There is a bin of outgrown leotards and shoes at my daughter's school, costing around $5, for the thrifty. We had a hard time actually finding a leotard in her color for the first weeks of her class and she went in another color. No one said a word. I don't have a problem with the requirement because I think this is part of the "corps de ballet" -- like being in any corps or "body" -- everyone is supposed to be similar. Only the prima ballerina stands out. And I think the little girls really enjoy it. |
At our school, they require a certain color and just ask that when you next buy a leotard, you get the school's chosen color. They don't keep you out of class if you are still wearing the wrong color. |
Maybe you should ask for a uniform scholarship. |
Our studio requires pink or black tights and any color leotard for the younger girls. It does get more strict as the girls/boy get older. |
How exactly are you being forced to buy anything? |
Which dance schools ask you to do this? |
OP, either take ballet or do not; but don't knock a longstanding part of the art. The art will not change for you or your special snowflake. |