Anonymous wrote:No, it is easy to dismiss you because your argument is essentially a "race to the bottom." Taken to an extreme, your argument would suggest that no parent should help their child or school unless and until all children/schools can be similarly helped. This argument actually helps NO ONE. Basically, in your worldview: I shouldn't provide fruits and veggies in my child's lunch b/c, after all, some can't afford the high price of healthy produce. Or, maybe, I shouldn't help my child with homework because I have a doctorate degree - something not all parents have. Or, maybe, I shouldn't volunteer at my child's school b/c not all parents have the flexibility to so so.
The point is that ALL children in a particular school will benefit if the parents of that school pool their resources to provide extras. By definition, they are extras - above and beyond the curriculum. If providing these extras meant taking something away from less advantaged schools, I would agree with you -- but it does not. MCPS has decided the basic level of what schools should provide. If parents want to go above and beyond with their own resources, so be it. If you think MCPS standards should be raised, then you should focus your efforts in that direction rather than vilify parents who are trying to do the best for their school.
This mentality of "if we can't ALL have the extras, then NONE of us should have the extras" is destructive and, frankly dis-empowering to parents throughout the county.
Public school districts [called divisions in some states] get extra state, local, and federal funding. Not all is legislated or mandated. Review school budgets in Montco and fairfax before bitching angry teacher. Class sizes are smaller, extra aides, extra hours of operation.
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