How do you heat it? |
Ooh we need a side thread for these cheap employers. It's the best part of this thread. I had a tone deaf boss too and he invited everyone to his boat in Annapolis. I was a poor worker and only used metro. I didn't have a car and wouldn't afford a taxi without missing a student loan payment. |
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| How about we just don't make people hang out with work people on their free time?? Nope. |
And especially on their own dollar! I once had a work potluck as a new employee. I’m South Asian. This was years ago, and the boss joked a couple times and sort of encouraged me to bring samosas. This was years ago, thankfully. 1) Just no. Don’t single me out like that. 2) I have no idea how to make them and they are pricey for a group! I did end up getting some because I felt awkward, but I was very annoyed, for multiple reasons. |
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I'm so glad we got that perfect suggestion on page 1 (sesame noodles FTW! I'm craving some now!) so that we can use the rest of this time to hate on potlucks and cheap bosses.
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| Another office potluck hater. When you’re working like a dog and barely have time to put a decent meal on the table for your own family, what makes you think I”ll enjoy making something to bring to work on top of every other way you infringe on my time outside of 9-5? |
That was a kind invitation from your boss. Lose the chip on your shoulder. |
It was clearly tone deaf. |
Agree! You should have inquired about carpooling. You missed a nice opportunity. |
Sorry about that. However, I must say that the most delicious samosas I ever had were brought to work one day by a coworker who had a favorite restaurant. He brought them in the same spirit as someone randomly bringing a box of donuts. They were so good, I had 3. I thanked him profusely. |
| I really don't want to eat food that coworkers make in their homes. I don't know the sanitariness of their kitchens. These are not friends, but rather, random people I work with. |
PP here. Tbh, I have at other times brought them of my own choice. So, no issues with that. They are always a big hit. It was just very inappropriate of my boss to do. But it was the late 90s and I was in my early 20s. That hasn’t happened again and I would also know how to handle it more confidently. |
I’ll give details here because I don’t even care if this outs me! My boss invited us to potluck at his home, a $2 million gorgeous mansion in Evanston. We were all grad students/lab techs making about $18/hr. I brought a freaking salad in a bowl on the El train because I didn’t even have a car. He provided spaghetti— no booze. |
My boss provided two pizzas, one pepperoni and one sausage, for a lab of two dozen people that was about half Muslim. I told her that this was pretty insensitive and she asked some people what they’d prefer for the next Lab Appreciation Week. Someone asked for samosas and she said they were too expensive. |