Are there any women that consider themselves to be hetero, but have felt an attraction to a woman at some point?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I consider myself to be almost entirely straight because I don't generally feel attracted to women. There are women who are objectively beautiful that I don't feel "attraction" to as such.

I have also met a handful of women in my life that I felt extremely attracted to - they were physically beautiful and personally charismatic. Some of them were relatively masculine-presenting and some weren't. None of these encounters/friendships resulted in any kind of romantic encounter, but were also totally different than the "objectively she's beautiful but does nothing for me" vibe,

This is me. I consider myself straight but there have been a few women (maybe 4 or 5 in my 40 years?) Where I have felt pretty attracted to them. It’s taken me by surprise.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Herero woman here and zero attraction to other women. I can appreciate a beautiful woman but zero attraction.

This just means you are a gay man trapped in a woman's body.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I fantasize about other women sexually - - I even occasionally have dreams that I am in bed w/another woman.
I once had a lap dance by a woman at a strip club and it was sensual.

However I love men and would never get with another Female…..
I just like keeping it in my mind only.

[Anonymous]

I thought I was asexual because I never felt like I wanted to have sex with a man. I had crushes and felt romantically attracted, but didn’t want to have sex. I got married to a man, and we do have sex regularly. But I also thought it was weird that I was sort of mesmerized by a few women (liked being friendly with them, and being around them, they were very positive and strong willed). I have never had a crush on a woman, but have felt a weird attraction towards a few, nothing sexual. I felt ashamed and thought I was lesbian (my parents are very anti-gay), so reading these posts is very reassuring.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely none. I can be jealous but never actually turned on by a woman.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Herero woman here and zero attraction to other women. I can appreciate a beautiful woman but zero attraction.

This just means you are a gay man trapped in a woman's body.

That is a very weird take on things.


Sexuality is a scale...0 to 10, if you want. Pick one end for hetero, the other for homo, and the middle for bi. People fall on that scale in many different places...2, 8, 10, etc.

[Anonymous]

I find women beautiful and attractive but have never felt a desire to do anything sexual with another woman.

[Anonymous]

I am mostly heterosexual but on a few occasions have been sexually attracted to some women. Most of my relationships have been with men but I’ve been in a sexual and romantic relationship with a woman and have had sex with a few others.

[Anonymous]

I think deep down I’m straight, but I still get bi panic. I’ve never hooked up with another woman, and I don’t know that I will. Maybe if I was this open minded when I was younger and single I don’t know. I strongly prefer men though.

[Anonymous]

I am sexually attracted to some women, but they must be prettier than me. A young Laetitia Casta pretty type -big natural forms. I watch porn (treesomes with similarly looking actresses) sometimes and phantasize about kissing her and touching her boobs while my BF is making love with her. I showed men I dated the pictures of women that I'm attracted to, and the men told this standard is unattainable. I'm very pretty so finding someone Hollywood level pretty for a threesome is impossible.

I had romantic dates with some women who were interested in me, but they were not that sexually attractive in order to progress to anything beyond a date or two.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes sure, attracted to but not sexually

This

[Anonymous]

I live my life straight and have only ever romantically wanted to be involved with men… however, I frequently fantasize about sex with women. I also have experienced a lightning strike kind of attraction to 3 women in my life. Like my body responds physiologically to them and I am very turned on. (This happens to me with men all the time.) I used to not understand the Glennon Doyles or Anne Heches of the world until that moment happened to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious if other women have had this experience.

Men have no value.
Women are self-sufficient and don’t need to rely on men for anything. We are better off with other women.
I’m curious why women continue to be attracted to men.