Oh my. The rich hypocrisy. |
| He is moving the goalposts. Nothing you do will ever be good enough. If you get up early to feed the dogs, he will be unhappy with the way you do it - too much or too little, not the right kind. |
| Dong? |
No his dong is not shopping. |
He retired maybe early, so I’m sure he brings money to the table. |
I am asking myself this daily |
. I let them out every morning. I give them their meds and a treat and then get ready for my job. He lays in bed looking at his iPad. And bitches bc I don’t feed them. I literally don’t have time and do not want to wake earlier |
. That’s a very stupid answer. It’s not about if I care about my dogs or not. It’s about if my spouse should help out or should I do it all. |
| The only way his request is reasonable is if the dogs need feeding by 6am, and you’re up at 5am anyway. Otherwise, he needs to make feeding the dogs part of his morning routine. |
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Were you doing it before he retired?
And are they his dogs too or you were the one that wanted them? |
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I mean, you're already up?
My husband and I take turns with the dogs but if I have to be up for something then I'll just do the dogs that morning even if it's not "my day." I can see not wanting to do them 100% of the time, but why can't he do evenings if you do mornings? |
It would take a whole lot of money to make me tolerate being some old guy’s bang maid and work outside the home. |
Also, look at dcum posts if you want to French. Good recommendations. |
What does his dong do? |
| Op, are you younger than him or late at being prepared for retirement? Doesn't matter what you do at your job, you and your DH also have duties at home. Don't be resentful if he gets to enjoy his retirement and you don't |