Catholic Private School Insights
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Anonymous
| Any Little Flower/Mercy families able to share their perspectives? Would love to know if there are any McLean/Virginia families |
Anonymous
We tend to bounce around and are not overly impressed with our local parish school. |
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Can you speak more about what your priorities are?
Are there non-starters at the parish school? Size? Facilities? |
Anonymous
Little Flower is old money. Families come from outside the immediate geographic area, think Potomac, because it’s their family parish. So there will be plenty of families driving in, but not too many from McLean. You could probably do it most days, but might hate your life if you’re thinking this is a school for 10 years. Lots of families with generations of membership at Congressional or Chevy. Their kids start with friends in the class from the club. So you might feel left out. Like all k-8 catholic school in the area, some boys will leave to go to Mater Dei or the Heights so it starts to get a little girl heavy. But luck of the draw with classes demographics. Unlike other Catholic K-8 school some Chevy Chase families leave for public school beginning in 3rd grade when Chevy Chase Elementary starts. Chevy Chase public schools are a little odd. As for Mercy, where my kids go, a couple families from McLean come each year. I think it’s a little easier drive than Little Flower but it’s still crossing the bridge. I’ve done the drive a few times because my parents live in McLean and when we spend the night there for whatever reason I have to deal with the commute. It’s not great now but maybe once the construction is done, famous last words I know. The education is a basic parish education with classes sizes that are too big. High school placement is deceptively good because so many kids have alumni parents at Prep or Visitation. Not sure the academics are anything to write home about. As for the families, there are still plenty of country club families but most Mercy families are two income families rather than at Little Flower where women tend to work less. Mercy also has families coming in from Gaithersburg or Rockville. I have found the parents at Mercy to be welcoming to a point, probably just because most people are busy working. |
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You might like the Woods, it’s a co-ed Catholic school but not a Parish school. So they have more flexibility to be inclusive. It kind of reminds me of an episcopal school.
Trouble for you is it’s in Bethesda. Are you willing to move? Are you from the area? You might underestimating the importance of the commute. Might want to look for schools with a bus option to help you out if you are determine to go to Maryland/DC. The woods has a spring open a house end of May. It’s a nice way to check out a school when you’re not in the middle of admissions season. But I’d get on it, many Parish schools have waitlist for Kindergarten so it’s better to start in prek4. And be prepared to register as Parishioners ASAP if you pick a favorite school. Archdiocese schools don’t follow the same rules as independent school regarding application deadlines. They can do rolling admissions or preferential deadlines for parishioners so apply for a spot early. |
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So the Heights for your son but not Oakcrest for your daughter? So, you must not be Opus Dei. But you must still be very traditional in religion and in lifestyle. The Stone ridge is liberal. It’s like the employees are embarrassed to be Catholic and overcompensate for being Catholic be being extremely liberal. The Heights and Stone Ridge do not go together. Stone Ridge starts at 3.5 years old though if you want to go ahead and switch now.
What about Holy Child? Not pr |
Anonymous
| What about Holy Child? Not prestigious compared to Stone Ridge and Visitation but more crossover with the Heights. |
Anonymous
| Madeira doesn’t take from Parish Schools. Different lanes. Of course someone here will post about an exception to the rule but consider independent k-8 schools instead. Consider Langley School or Congressional Country Day. |
Anonymous
Aren't the Vances at Little Flower and the Heights? They did an extensive search of Catholic schools in the area. |
Anonymous
They’re at the Heights because Mater Dei couldn’t accommodate the security requirements. If you’ve seen the campus you know the issues. Don’t know about Little Flower, but it tracks. |
Anonymous
Little Flower was a fit simply for transportation and security. Other area schools would be logistically hard. The kid will be gone in a year. |
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If you want a Parish school, stick with your local parish school. They’re all very similar. All follow archdiocese rules, all hire from the same pool of teacher, variations between schools are transient and unpredictable.
Maybe you can go one parish over, especially if drop off times are significantly different or you’re trying to enroll multiple kids at once and one school just doesn’t have the space. But it’s weird when families go to a different school than their geographic parish. Kind of feels like an interloper. |
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Not necessarily true. Parish schools may all follow archdiocese rules, but anyone who's actually toured a few knows the culture, leadership, academics, and community can vary significantly. A strong principal, an engaged parent body, or a particular charism can make a real difference, and those things aren't "transient" they shape a child's experience for years. If your local parish school has issues, why would you walk into a lion's den willingly just to satisfy someone's idea of geographic loyalty? Parents have every right to choose the school that's the best fit for their kid academically, socially, and spiritually. That's not being an "interloper," that's being a responsible parent. The schools themselves accept out-of-parish families and often charge a different tuition rate for it; it's a built-in, expected part of the system. Also worth saying: parishes aren't medieval fiefdoms. Plenty of families attend Mass at one parish, send kids to school at another, and are involved in both communities. No one's checking your ZIP code at the door |
Anonymous
Agreed. It may have been the case when we were kids, or even still in other areas of the country, but the DMV’s parochial schools have a mixed student body with many kids from outside the parish for various reasons. Some schools have better reputations, some have a different political bent or interpretation of Catholicism, some are on the way to parents’ work and some just happened to have the openings. |