Because the kids don't care. The thing OP mentions -- playdates, birthday parties, etc -- won't be an issue. It will be OP herself who is more aware of being different. Which seems -- to me, at least -- a not big reason to schlep your kids to a different neighborhood. |
My son is the only Black kid in his grade. Not ideal and why we are looking to move elsewhere. |
Let me guess - you are white. |
Lots of parents shlep their kids to different neighborhoods for reasons the kids don't care about. DC has this whole lottery system, you don't have to go to your neighborhood school, and for once this is something a parent wants that they can just easily get. |
That teaches a kids a negative lesson -- that they can't be friends with kids that don't look like them -- while forgoing positive benefits like walking to school. |
| ^^ It's also a parent putting her needs and past ahead of the kids' needs and world. |
Most white kids in DC outside of upper NW or part of Capitol Hill are not going to their neighborhood public school. Of course this matters to lots of parents. And it matters to lots of kids, too, but an elementary school student who has not been in an extreme minority before is not going to be able to predict how this will play out, so the parent has to be one making the call. |
Interesting. And something I hadn’t considered as a parent of kids in the Other group. We always have potential of being an “only” so not sure it matters what group dominates. |
Kids arent the ones setting up playdates and other events.. its the parents and who they are most comfortable with. |
| Put more emphasis on ensuring your black child is high performing so that can apply to a private middle school — one that has a curated population of other high-performing black kids in critical mass. This isn’t something we can find in public schools. |
| Key alumni parent here. Our (white) kids' best Black friends in elementary school were from African families -- Ethiopian, Nigerian, Ghanaian, various West African World Bank folks. There was even one dad who was big somebody at the Bahamian embassy. Lots of great parties and holiday events, terrific food, languages spoken -- but a different flavor from much of Black DC. |
I get it. Africans tend to be a lot more open toward White Americans than Black Americans can be sometimes, understandably. (I have an African parent and a Black American parent so I’ve observed this). |
| Key is known for many things, diversity is not one of them. |
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Actually, the Key stats that OP quoted -- 10% Black about 15% Hispanic and 5% Asian -- are right in-line with the US as a whole. So Key has less minority representation than much of DC, but more than adjacent neighborhoods in MD and VA. |