We know players invited to regional camps and this is not necessary. Yes, touches and extra work is essential outside of team practices. But for the love of God, no one needs to be going abroad or going on tournament teams or going to the most elite coach. That sounds like FOMO. The best player on DS team we know takes one day off soccer but hasn’t played abroad and rarely does tournament teams. And hasn’t had any trouble being scouted. |
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My kid has been a star on a terrible team. This is a waste of time- who cares if he can score 8 goals if the team is one step above rec.
He would say he learned a ton being on his school team and practicing with the better kids, even though he did not get a lot of playing time. That being said, he played on a travel team where he is a starter and gets a lot of minutes. If you never get playing time, then this isn’t a good use of time or money. |
Agreed. Every player has their own path. Half the local girls selected haven’t done a fraction of the outside work that some of the other girls have done. They are at the top end of the athleticism pyramid and don’t need to spend every waking second on the ball. Not that it hurts, but some kids need to do it more than others. |
This line gets repeated constantly in youth soccer…by clubs, parents, and influencers alike. It sounds smart. It feels developmental. But it misses reality by a wide margin. As you move up the levels, you start to see it clearly. That “amazing” U8 coach? There’s a reason they’re coaching U8. That U11 coach working toward a UEFA B or USSF A…young, energetic, loved by the kids? Sure. But often still lacking the experience and perspective (on and off the field) to truly be elite. The best coaches in the country don’t sit at the lower levels. They’re concentrated in the top tiers, U15 and up, and especially in the professional ranks. High-level coaches don’t stay with weak environments for long, if ever. And here’s the part people ignore: Teams are the constant. Coaches are the variable. Players develop together over years. Coaches cycle through in one to two year windows. You can play a match without a coach. You cannot play one without a team. |
This is that backwards unintelligent American soccer lack of culture thinking Only here people think U8 coaches should be the worst least experienced coaches and the best coaches coach U19 and up Go to Spain, Brazil, Holland, France and see the qualifications of U10 coaches at high level clubs If your kid doesn't have knowledgeable, experienced good coach at early development stages teaching them the right fundamentals, how are they going to be high level at U16? Under U15 age group it is mainly teaching, not coaching. |
Yep. U8 Coach Klopp…😂 what a weird response based nowhere in reality. |
Not to mention, not really responsive either, just typical “Europe is better IMO, so I’m going to make up something insane and post it.” |
So in Europe and South America they don't have quality experienced coaches coaching younger age groups? Are you saying they follow the American model of using inexperienced basically babysitters to coach U6 to U10? |
As he said, you are not knowledgeable. Actually, the most successful local clubs try to do this as well. Amazing how ignorantly wrong DCUM parents are. smh |
I think maybe the reality is that in the U.S., the best coaches are in older age groups and the advice is just to accept that and work on ways to get better at those earlier ages despite the poor coaching. I actually agree with you that the coaching at those ages are important but more so at u12-u14. I don’t think it’s productive for coaches to bombard kids with technical stuff and drills and intensity until they clamor for it and are ready for it. So at U-10 and under, coaches should just fostering a love of the game which includes competitiveness and creativity and just letting them play with little actual coaching in games. The need to watch pro games should also be introduced already. This is a great time to develop good and organic instincts with the ball while playing. U-10-U13 is then a good time to perfect and hone technical skills (this is obviously good all career long) plus other things of course, and be introduced to more intensity if that is what the players desire. This has been DS path. We’ve really lucked out with coaches who gave DS what he needed at the right times. At U12 and above, the quality of your team becomes almost as important and that’s when many choose to move clubs when players want to be on more competitive teams. Finally, I think this is rarely touched upon but consistency of coaching and methodology is very important. We are at a small club where we know what the coaching is going to be like all the way though the older age groups. It boggles my mind that families don’t even know who the coach will be when they join the team and whether the club has an overall methodology consistently implemented at all levels and ages. |
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Guys…whoever is arguing that great coaches exist at U8 should stop speaking and probably doesn’t know what a great coach is. If we are talking about full-time coaches, every single one of them is striving for academy and then the men’s/women’s first team, or college. Are you honestly arguing that top level coaches are settling for U8 at some club? Stop. If we are talking about part-time coaches…who cares…wake up.
Coaching does not matter…development does not happen at clubs. It happens outside of clubs. |
I should have said U6 to U14 You're right Granted the education and development is normally tiered in phases U6-U8, U9-U11, U12-U14 or thereabouts That said, we here need to place more focus on coaches for these foundation and early development stages being more qualified, experienced and knowledgeable |
You're being extremely loud in your obvious ignorance So kids should skip school and just do homework because schools and teachers don't matter and are irrelevant? If your kid's team coach at U10 is offering no value, then you should leave and find one who does. |
Good Coaching absolutely matters and if one can’t be found, then you become the parent that spends all their time and resources to get your kid the proper development and on to the platforms that get them noticed, which can often lead to FOMO. I don’t think there is one answer for all families. It’s a matter of making the most of what is available to you and how to fit it in to your family’s lifestyle. Not many can do all the things that have been shared here such as moving to europe, training and playing tournaments regularly abroad, etc. |
Amuses me how people don't know this is a multifaceted marathon So many want the magic pill |