Do you really notice people’s shoes?

[Anonymous]

I notice very good or very bad and old dress flat sounds pretty bad. You say you lost a lot of weight. Presumably you got a new great dress? I think you should have shoes that honor it and do your hard work justice. That's if you care but I know I feel better when I look good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a wedding to attend tomorrow evening. I recently lost weight and needed new dressy heels, but the ones I bought don’t fit, and I am not in the mood to shop tonight. I’m considering just wearing my old, tired dress flats. So boring. But I will be sitting the majority of the time, and you don’t see feet on the dance floor anyway, right?

Your question makes me realize I that I am always looking at shoes in a city especially on the subway or when people are walking towards me. Other than that, I really don’t notice!

[Anonymous]

I always notice shoes. But I like shoes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I always notice everything. Especially if I was attending a wedding, I would be watching what the other guests are wearing too.

Come on. Stop stressing OP out.

OP asked. Dp

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I notice very good or very bad and old dress flat sounds pretty bad. You say you lost a lot of weight. Presumably you got a new great dress? I think you should have shoes that honor it and do your hard work justice. That's if you care but I know I feel better when I look good.

+ 1

[Anonymous]

Only if they are gorgeous or hideous. Everything in between blends together for me.

[Anonymous]

I always notice people's shoes. Shoes should not be an afterthought, especially at a wedding. The shoes make the outfit.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It's one of the best tells

[Anonymous]

Always

[Anonymous]

I look at people’s shoes because I hate all my shoes right now and am looking for inspiration. Yours probably wouldn’t register. And that’s fine, right? We don’t know each other and even if we did, if I were the type to be judgmental about your shoes you probably wouldn’t want to be friends with me anyway

Your shoes are fine, OP. Don’t overthink it.

[Anonymous]

No one needs to be in 4 inch stilettos. Treat yourself to a smaller heel (even a kitten heel).

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a wedding to attend tomorrow evening. I recently lost weight and needed new dressy heels, but the ones I bought don’t fit, and I am not in the mood to shop tonight. I’m considering just wearing my old, tired dress flats. So boring. But I will be sitting the majority of the time, and you don’t see feet on the dance floor anyway, right?

Nope. No one will notice and anyone with enough taste/style who does, will have enough class not to say anything

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:From Shawshank Redemption I learned that most people do not.

Love this reference. 🩷

[Anonymous]

I won't say anything but yes, I will notice if your outfit is not typical for the situation, if your shoes are extremely worn or do not match your outfit, and I notice your skin/hair/jewlery.

And yes, OP did ask. If she felt confident in her look she would not have posted a question.

[Anonymous]

I notice shoes but if they are 3-4 inch I think just why, flats I think you have some issue.

Just get some normal 2” heals at DSW.