Is it Courageous for a Woman to Sell Her Soul?

[Anonymous]

Op again, I am out of the marriage. I have heard it said that these women are "strong" which I take to mean courageous. I dont understand it, how you can sell your soul for "stuff" and appearances. But as I said , their lives are simpler, so maybe there is something I didnt get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Staying married to someone who has been an adulterous (prostitute) and who is no longer your better half in order to preserve the "family" in all of its meanings.

You are so clever with your remark on my typo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Staying married to someone who has been an adulterous (prostitute) and who is no longer your better half in order to preserve the "family" in all of its meanings.

Hillary Clinton stayed. But not to preserve family or Bill’s reputation. Likely to not set him free to do even more sleeping around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op again, I am out of the marriage. I have heard it said that these women are "strong" which I take to mean courageous. I dont understand it, how you can sell your soul for "stuff" and appearances. But as I said , their lives are simpler, so maybe there is something I didnt get.

It’s interesting how quickly “strength” becomes whatever choice lets someone feel morally taller than others. Leaving may have been necessary for you, but necessity isn’t the same thing as courage. Sometimes it’s just the fastest exit from discomfort.

You accuse other women of “selling their souls,” but what you’re really condemning is their refusal to perform your version of dignity. They endured complexity, ambiguity, and things you clearly couldn’t tolerate. You chose clarity. They chose endurance. Neither is inherently noble, but only one of you needs to belittle the other to feel justified.

Calling their lives “simpler” is especially revealing. You didn’t leave because you were strong, you left because you needed simplicity. They stayed because they were willing to live without applause, without vindication, and without the comfort of a clean narrative.

Strength doesn’t always look like walking away. Sometimes it looks like standing still while everyone else feels entitled to judge you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Staying married to someone who has been an adulterous (prostitute) and who is no longer your better half in order to preserve the "family" in all of its meanings.

I don’t get it.

A married prostitute is an adulterous, but not vice versa.

So you married a prostitute who kept prostituting? And you had kids or a family?

And now you’re asking what exactly? To get a divorce or not?

Yeah divorce. That sounds disgusting and risky. So does the body counts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op again, I am out of the marriage. I have heard it said that these women are "strong" which I take to mean courageous. I dont understand it, how you can sell your soul for "stuff" and appearances. But as I said , their lives are simpler, so maybe there is something I didnt get.

Troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op again, I am out of the marriage. I have heard it said that these women are "strong" which I take to mean courageous. I dont understand it, how you can sell your soul for "stuff" and appearances. But as I said , their lives are simpler, so maybe there is something I didnt get.

Desperate, poor people who need to survive will indeed sometimes cross ethical, moral and health boundaries to survive. There is a lot of literature on this.

In most cases it’s weak character / easy way out.
In some cases it’s being strong.

[Anonymous]

Tax fraud

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op again, I am out of the marriage. I have heard it said that these women are "strong" which I take to mean courageous. I dont understand it, how you can sell your soul for "stuff" and appearances. But as I said , their lives are simpler, so maybe there is something I didnt get.

You really MUST learn to write clearly. Write so that others can understand. When you refer to something, make sure you defined it previously. Who are "these women"? Women who were cheated on who chose to stay married? "Adulterous" is an adjective, and therefore must precede a noun. Why are "these women"'s lives "simpler", OP? Why did you not explain that?

Stop making the reader do all the work. You were taught how to write in school. Don't backslide on DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Is it courageous to be a married woman with kids prostitute in America?

No.

That’s stupid as F.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op again, I am out of the marriage. I have heard it said that these women are "strong" which I take to mean courageous. I dont understand it, how you can sell your soul for "stuff" and appearances. But as I said , their lives are simpler, so maybe there is something I didnt get.

You really MUST learn to write clearly. Write so that others can understand. When you refer to something, make sure you defined it previously. Who are "these women"? Women who were cheated on who chose to stay married? "Adulterous" is an adjective, and therefore must precede a noun. Why are "these women"'s lives "simpler", OP? Why did you not explain that?

Stop making the reader do all the work. You were taught how to write in school. Don't backslide on DCUM.

again, so erudite. Im out of this bitter forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op again, I am out of the marriage. I have heard it said that these women are "strong" which I take to mean courageous. I dont understand it, how you can sell your soul for "stuff" and appearances. But as I said , their lives are simpler, so maybe there is something I didnt get.

You really MUST learn to write clearly. Write so that others can understand. When you refer to something, make sure you defined it previously. Who are "these women"? Women who were cheated on who chose to stay married? "Adulterous" is an adjective, and therefore must precede a noun. Why are "these women"'s lives "simpler", OP? Why did you not explain that?

Stop making the reader do all the work. You were taught how to write in school. Don't backslide on DCUM.

I’m pretty sure the OP is intoxicated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Staying married to someone who has been an adulterous (prostitute) and who is no longer your better half in order to preserve the "family" in all of its meanings.

Marrying someone lacking morals and character was the wrong decision.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it courageous to be a married woman with kids prostitute in America?

No.

That’s stupid as F.

Exactly! If prostitution was courageous and something to be admired, then people should be raising their daughters to become prostitutes. But they don’t do that because no matter how much they externally justify it, they know in their heart that it is vile

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Staying married to someone who has been an adulterous (prostitute) and who is no longer your better half in order to preserve the "family" in all of its meanings.

So you're a woman married to a woman who cheated on you?