$20k in 2015 would only be $60k today. UVA instate for 4 years is $167k. Not to mention, who has $20k lying around in after tax money to lock up in a 529. How much did your house cost? It seems like your housing costs and childcare costs were very low if you had this much free cash. |
| They want money. So they can travel first class, do what they want etc. |
If you dump 20k 2 years before your child is born, then contribute $200 a month until they turn 18 (so, a total of 20 years), that’s 184k in today’s dollars. House cost 1M, in Rockville. I’m just very frugal otherwise. I’ve never used DoorDash for example. I go out to eat once a week. I don’t do expensive sports for my kids to signal to other parents. I swear parents in the DC region (and elsewhere I guess) treat kids activities like mowing the lawn was before, a virtue symbol. It’s insane the time and money people put for “swim practice”. I don’t think my kids are in want or need for lack of it |
I’m sorry but this is all excuses from a lifetime of not saving enough. I don’t buy it. |
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^what do I mean? By 50 you should have paid off your house. Have fully funded 529s.
Property tax increasing is what happens when a neighborhood appreciates and improves along various metrics. It’s just a price signal. Put up or move. Medical. That’s what the HSA is for Anyway, this is quite off topic. I don’t think people that move from government to consulting are in need of money that hard… |
| I basically work pt for myself and get better than ft pay. 250 with the feds to 600 for myself and a PT assistant. I happily worked as a fed to be a civil servant. I didn't sign up to be a king's servant. |
| I work in consulting and attended a panel of feds who recently joined. It was clear they cared deeply about their work/mission and wanted to continue to serve in any capacity they could. I don't know the reasons for their departures but it was not fake or self serving. |
I saved enough however at 58 I only had a net-worth of 5 million. I cant retire early with that much bills still rolling in. Now 5 years later I got those two college tuitions done and 5 years more of mortgage done and now at 8 million. However bills are still rolling in as still have a kid in college, I still like my job. No desire to be old retired guy in Florida in a 55 plus HOA. I like mentoring staff, going to Board meetings, going to conferences. So have no desire to retire. Maybe 68. Maybe grow my accounts to 12 million. Money to be honest is really meaningless compared to I enjoy meaningful work and good health. At work we have board members who are 70-80 who still consult some are on other boards too. They are lot richer than me. When I do “retire” i will still be busy as I am on a board already, manage a rental property already and may teach as an adjunct professor and join a second board. |
Parents like you are very cheap, not bc you save a lot, but because you expect your kids who grow up with subpar resources to go to highest IRR major and find the most lucrative job and still find something imperfect about them. For you kids are business project, the bottom line is always raising. |
People now buy first homes around 40. Hard to pay of off by 50. HSA is nonsense. I got five kids on my work health plan, two are not dependents meaning I can’t use HSA money and me retiring throws all five of us off plan. Plus with 401k super catch up 60-63 you can really juice 401k. |