How often do you shower with your partner?

[Anonymous]

This is one of the most overrated romantic activities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe once a week? I don’t really like it, but he loves it and would shower together every day if it was up to him.

TBH a big part of why I don’t like it is I usually poop before I shower, and it’s tough to feel sexy after that, ha.

What does help is when he turns it into pampering me. So he’ll wash me, wrap me in a towel, then spend 20 minutes putting lotion all over my body. Otherwise I don’t really see the point of us individually scrubbing our buttcracks or whatever in the same shower.

Is this for real??

[Anonymous]

Dh. I like the intimacy of it. Only having one shower head makes you closer. We don’t have sex, but the washing each other is foreplay, and we have sex afterwards. This is about once a week

[Anonymous]

Men love this. Women generally know it’s overrated.

I don’t need a man to watch me while I scrub my bathing suit area. And I don’t want to share the hot water/get lather splashed in my face.

[Anonymous]

I hate this. Do it occasionally just to be nice to DH. I am always cold!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is one of the most overrated romantic activities.

Totally. Just so impractical and basically only sexy in porn. We feel the same so...never.

[Anonymous]

Very occasionally - - I am a Female who prefers to shower alone.

I like to take my time conditioning my hair, shaving my legs, etc. and I prefer to do these things in solitude.

[Anonymous]

No shower but taking a bath together is good for spousal intimacy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:With my exH, never. But I often jump I the shower with my boyfriend because I like the intimacy of it. Usually it’s just an overlapping, he’s finishing up and about to get out and I jump in and then he leaves.

This is us. About once a week we'll overlap. And maybe once a month that overlap will get ... steamy.

[Anonymous]

Once a decade or so.

[Anonymous]

Ahh the "adventurous" crowd that is DCUM.

[Anonymous]

It's not about not being adventurous, it's just one of those things that's better in theory than reality.

[Anonymous]

A few times a year.
The last time we did that was several
months ago for a week long. Sometimes we have sex in the shower. Sometimes just wash up and sex after.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ahh the "adventurous" crowd that is DCUM.

LMFAO, true!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No shower but taking a bath together is good for spousal intimacy

Not if both of you are above average height.Then it's just uncomfortable