Does your partner put effort into how they dress?

[Anonymous]

Yes, he likes style and if we go to a nice restaurant, especially when on vacation, he knows how to put an outfit together.

[Anonymous]

Yes and expects the same for spouse.

[Anonymous]

Mine knows how to dress when it's expected of him - he went to Prep school and did cotillion and all that. But left to his own devices he'll show up in a raggedy t-shirt and bike shorts and has to be told to go home and change. It's annoying. I'm pretty chill about my own attire, though - I'll wear athleisure if I can get away with it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes and expects the same for spouse.

+1

[Anonymous]

Not in his daily attire, but I’ve won the battle of how he looks when he go to dinner, weekends away, formal events.

[Anonymous]

She dresses well but she is fat. So doesn’t look good anyway

[Anonymous]

He's a lawyer and hes good at mixing and matching biz casual (jeans, sweaters, chinos, button ups, polo, nice shoes) and looks great in his suits. I think the area he struggles is truly casual. Khakis and a band tee are not it, my man. So I've veen having success introducing shackets, Henleys, nicer solid tees, etc.

I try to put effort in to myself everyday and he appreciates it.

[Anonymous]

Not really. He dresses for comfort. His ex wife dressed him all the time and he didn’t like it. I do not dress well and he doesn’t care.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or is not a priority? I’ve always enjoyed clothes and like being with a partner that dresses well.

Yes we do put some effort to stay clean and look presentable but neither is overly focused on impressing anyone with wealth and style. That seems too shallow and frankly stupid to us for ourselves. We don't mind what others do as everyone gas to come over their insecurities somehow, if it helps them then good for them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, but I put effort into how he dresses and he puts on what I put front and center in his closet 😂

Easy and smart solution.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or is not a priority? I’ve always enjoyed clothes and like being with a partner that dresses well.

Most people don't see this as a priority. They like being with a partner who has enough integrity and empathy to not be so self absorbed about appearance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She dresses well but she is fat. So doesn’t look good anyway

Hijo e pu!

[Anonymous]

Nah he dresses like a professor. Clothing is an afterthought. Footwear is fine and doesn't need attention. I have no complaints.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Or is not a priority? I’ve always enjoyed clothes and like being with a partner that dresses well.

Most people don't see this as a priority. They like being with a partner who has enough integrity and empathy to not be so self absorbed about appearance.

People with integrity don't dress like slobs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Or is not a priority? I’ve always enjoyed clothes and like being with a partner that dresses well.

Most people don't see this as a priority. They like being with a partner who has enough integrity and empathy to not be so self absorbed about appearance.

People with integrity don't dress like slobs.

LOL you realize that most psychopaths are charming and well dressed. Narcissists very much care about their appearance. Integrity is zero.