Anonymous wrote:I was also going to say — join a Christian church.
I am grew up in a family that attended church every Sunday but moved to the big city, and became agnostic for a long time. I was not into religion at all.
But in my early 40s, after some serious personal failings, I decided to look at faith again and I was astounded at what I found the second time around. It completely changed my life for the better.
There was previously a gender gap in church attendance with women attending church more than men. That gap is gone now. Churches are now filled with young men and they are the sort of young men who you would probably want to date — instead of men who are only in it for sex, are afraid to commit, and have zero interest in personal change and growth — the men I meet at church are seeking true love, seeing inner beauty, dedicated to becoming better versions of themselves, deeply in touch with their emotions and shortcomings, and wanting to live life in a Christ-like way that is filled with compassion, kindness, and grace, but also leadership and being of service.
I admire them because they are much better people than I was when I was their age and only selfishly cared about myself.
OP is 24. Do you suggest her to dating 40s men you meet in church? I haven't seen too many early 20s men in my church
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