THIS! Op, my daughter sounds very similar to yours and all the docs ever wanted to do was say anxiety. It was so frustrating because she never got nervous, was very social, played intense sports, etc… but her brain was constantly running, her mouth was running, and she was impulsive, reactive, and highly stimulated. That is ADHD and not anxiety. You know your kid. Be proactive. We had to try 5 different stimulants and also tried Wellbutrin and even Straterra. Most didn’t work or made her more agitated. I asked for a different type of stimulant as methylphenidates did not work at all. She is now on Vyvanse in AM and Clonidine in PM and she is finally feeling more calm and less reactive. Don’t give up. What works for some does not work for others |
We’ve tried many different stimulants and a couple different SSRIs. We’ve finally found the right combination for DD17 and she’s been very stable the last couple years: doing well in school, anxiety managed, better emotional regulation. She’s on Dextroamphetamine and Fluoxetine (Prozac). |
What symptoms sound like anxiety and not adhd? |
It sounds like you've only tried the methylphenidate class of stimulants (Metadate, Concerta, Focalin all fit here), so trying something from the amphetamine class (Adderall, Vyvanse, etc.) would be a logical next step. Many people respond well only to one class and very poorly to the other - Vyvanse was awful for my son but he has thrived on Concerta/Focalin, and I know it's the opposite for a lot of people. |
My almost 16yo son has had a hard time finding a med that helps with his severe ADHD inattentive type. I actually made the psychiatrist really break it down for me at the last visit and go down the list of every drug we've tried since he was in 3rd gr. He's done a bunch of stimulants and one non-stimulant.
What I found was that the previous doctor we were seeing just kept trying new stimulants in the same class (is that the right word?? there's the adderall/amphetamine side and then there's the ritalin/methylphenidate side). She kept giving him different methylphenidates and none of them worked. So I suggested we try one from the amphetamine side. We're only four weeks in, but for the first time ever, he's reporting that it's working and we're seeing homework completion like we've never seen before. Point is, maybe keep trying and really look at what you've tried and haven't tried and see if there is any pattern. |
+1 My nephew tried several stimulants to treat ADHD and nothing helped. They switched to an anti-anxiety medication and it made a huge difference. |
I have an AuADHD kid and have had to rule out stimulants. He either hated the way they made him feel OR we hated the personality and mood differences they created.
Wellbutrin seemed to be tolerated until we realized that ongoing gastro issues pretty perfectly aligned with starting the meds and were negating any benefit. It's been a really frustrating slog for us. Prozac has helped with anxiety, so we are sticking with that for now. |
My son is on Vyvanse (a fairly high dose). It has been far more helpful than prior stimulants - you can still tell he has ADHD but it is far better controlled. It did increase his anxiety, but we were so pleased with the result that we decided to try him on a low dose of antianxiety meds to counteract. |
It's chicken and egg. The medication is often the on-ramp to slowing the mind down enough to focus and learn those executive functioning and coping skills. We don't tell people suffering from bipolar disorder to just go to therapy. There are multiple tools to use. |
Did you never try Prozac?
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Same but what I found is it didn’t help with the ADHD at all. Just the anxiety that creeped in because of not feeling “normal” with peers because of ADHD symptoms. So after failed stimulants, we started Lexapro and then starting Concerta a month later. So much better. |
OP here. Thank you. That is what I’m thinking. It’s all the same class and just slight differences and release times. It seemed like a waste. I am going to ask to try a different class and I hope that works. |
By all means yes keep trying - those are all methylphenidate drugs - need to try also the other branch - adderall and vyvanse etc. It took us well over a year plus to find the right dose and med. |
Meds are a last resort for most people. |
OP describes it as anxiety. Emotional instability also sounds like a personality issue requiring therapy not ADHD. |