
That sounds stifling. Don't you have years after college to do some kind of snobby country club thing? What a way to shut down your youth. |
That part of the country marries right after college typically. (I didnt conform if that's not clear) |
You are describing such a small and inconsequential life. The richest person in all of Alabama doesn’t even make the top 1000 in the US…there are literally 20 kids younger than 30 from top 20 schools that are worth more than that guy and he’s the richest. Why would someone want to go to Alabama, go through all this just to end up at the “best investment firm in Mobile, Birmingham or Montgomery” when they could pick any number of schools and end up at Goldman or Blackstone or any number of firms in NYC that are literally a 1000x bigger. |
Didn't read the article and never rushed. But don't you have to rush *and* get in? Is this just the fee for rushing? |
Honestly, 30A sucks now. Also, what you say can be generally true but it’s also pretty simplified. |
Coming from the right families might give you an inside track but it's not the only way in and it's not an automatic bid. It's a lot different on the fraternity side. |
Exactly this. Like why would anyone aspire to this? |
Coming from the right families.
That. Right there. That’s what’s wrong. |
Typically, if your family has money you already attending a wealthy HS like Mountain Brook kr Vestavia Hills for example. Those schools sends a ton of rushing girls to Alabama and Auburn yearly, so there's likely already someone older at thr various sorority houses who knows the freshman incoming girls and lobbies to get a particular girl in the house- if they are liked, or cut if they are not. That's why I said it's near impossible to get a bid from out of state (excluding Georgia)... nobody at that house is likely to know you already, so they just cut you. Maybe 1 or 2 spots are left for unknown girls who just completely knock it out of the park during the events. |
“We” being parents of college kids. The kids aren’t shelling out 15 grand and paying $3,000 for a rush coach. And no, mine aren’t at an SEC school |
30A as in redneck Riviera? Umm ok |
+1 a “bimmer” in Mobile does not appeal. |
Parent of college girl. Neither of us is shelling out this cash for this purpose. This is a “you” problem. |
Please, Like your DH would have married you if you were 400 lbs and disfigured. |
What even is 30A??? |