New parent questions

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Situation 1:
Even if it does affect your supply, you have to sleep. Anyone who tells you that you have to wake up at night *while your baby is sleeping* in order to pump does not have your best interest at heart.


Situation 2: I wouldn’t pump during the day if you are already feeding him every 2 hours. You probably aren’t pumping much with such a tiny baby anyway. It hardly seems worth it.


Situation 3: I held all of my kids a lot and put them in a swing, took them on walks, or put them in a bouncer to sleep. You have to stop doing most of that by the time they are 4-5 months old because they start to roll over and pull themselves out of it. None of my kids had trouble transitioning to their stationary crib after that.


Situation 4: Routines are great. You aren’t going to have much of a routine at 1 month old, though. Most babies settle into a natural routine with two naps a day at around 4 months old.


Situation 5: If you are going back to work or you want to be able to leave your baby in someone else’s care for more than a couple of hours, then you have to let them get used to a bottle. Not doing so is a recipe for disaster.

That being said, I think you are making life too difficult if you are both building a freezer stash AND supplementing. Nurse your baby now or have someone else feed pumped milk from a bottle, and use more formula when you go back to work.



Situation 1: I pump once after the first morning feed for about 10 minutes while he eats on the other side. I get 3-4 ounces. I also collect some in the Hakkas while I feed on the other side. I bag about 8oz a day from that.

I’ve only give a couple of bottles but it’s been great to be able to supplement with a bottle of pumped milk so I can get some sleep.

Situation 4: We are talking about making a bedtime routine. That’s pretty much it for the routine right now.


You’re supplementing with pumped milk? I would have someone give a bottle every day.

I did a bedtime routine with my first and not with my second. (After that, the routines revolved around older kids.). All of my kids were great sleepers. The routine didn’t matter.


It’s happened a couple of times where I was tired and DH gave a bottle of pumped milk so I could sleep longer. It’s not a regular occurrence but he has no problem taking a bottle so far.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

Situation 1:
Even if it does affect your supply, you have to sleep. Anyone who tells you that you have to wake up at night *while your baby is sleeping* in order to pump does not have your best interest at heart.


Situation 2: I wouldn’t pump during the day if you are already feeding him every 2 hours. You probably aren’t pumping much with such a tiny baby anyway. It hardly seems worth it.


Situation 3: I held all of my kids a lot and put them in a swing, took them on walks, or put them in a bouncer to sleep. You have to stop doing most of that by the time they are 4-5 months old because they start to roll over and pull themselves out of it. None of my kids had trouble transitioning to their stationary crib after that.


Situation 4: Routines are great. You aren’t going to have much of a routine at 1 month old, though. Most babies settle into a natural routine with two naps a day at around 4 months old.


Situation 5: If you are going back to work or you want to be able to leave your baby in someone else’s care for more than a couple of hours, then you have to let them get used to a bottle. Not doing so is a recipe for disaster.

That being said, I think you are making life too difficult if you are both building a freezer stash AND supplementing. Nurse your baby now or have someone else feed pumped milk from a bottle, and use more formula when you go back to work.



Situation 1: I pump once after the first morning feed for about 10 minutes while he eats on the other side. I get 3-4 ounces. I also collect some in the Hakkas while I feed on the other side. I bag about 8oz a day from that.

I’ve only give a couple of bottles but it’s been great to be able to supplement with a bottle of pumped milk so I can get some sleep.

Situation 4: We are talking about making a bedtime routine. That’s pretty much it for the routine right now.


You’re supplementing with pumped milk? I would have someone give a bottle every day.

I did a bedtime routine with my first and not with my second. (After that, the routines revolved around older kids.). All of my kids were great sleepers. The routine didn’t matter.


It’s happened a couple of times where I was tired and DH gave a bottle of pumped milk so I could sleep longer. It’s not a regular occurrence but he has no problem taking a bottle so far.



Make it a regular occurrence.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

Situation 1:
Even if it does affect your supply, you have to sleep. Anyone who tells you that you have to wake up at night *while your baby is sleeping* in order to pump does not have your best interest at heart.


Situation 2: I wouldn’t pump during the day if you are already feeding him every 2 hours. You probably aren’t pumping much with such a tiny baby anyway. It hardly seems worth it.


Situation 3: I held all of my kids a lot and put them in a swing, took them on walks, or put them in a bouncer to sleep. You have to stop doing most of that by the time they are 4-5 months old because they start to roll over and pull themselves out of it. None of my kids had trouble transitioning to their stationary crib after that.


Situation 4: Routines are great. You aren’t going to have much of a routine at 1 month old, though. Most babies settle into a natural routine with two naps a day at around 4 months old.


Situation 5: If you are going back to work or you want to be able to leave your baby in someone else’s care for more than a couple of hours, then you have to let them get used to a bottle. Not doing so is a recipe for disaster.

That being said, I think you are making life too difficult if you are both building a freezer stash AND supplementing. Nurse your baby now or have someone else feed pumped milk from a bottle, and use more formula when you go back to work.



Situation 1: I pump once after the first morning feed for about 10 minutes while he eats on the other side. I get 3-4 ounces. I also collect some in the Hakkas while I feed on the other side. I bag about 8oz a day from that.

I’ve only give a couple of bottles but it’s been great to be able to supplement with a bottle of pumped milk so I can get some sleep.

Situation 4: We are talking about making a bedtime routine. That’s pretty much it for the routine right now.


You’re supplementing with pumped milk? I would have someone give a bottle every day.

I did a bedtime routine with my first and not with my second. (After that, the routines revolved around older kids.). All of my kids were great sleepers. The routine didn’t matter.


It’s happened a couple of times where I was tired and DH gave a bottle of pumped milk so I could sleep longer. It’s not a regular occurrence but he has no problem taking a bottle so far.



Make it a regular occurrence.


How regular?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

Situation 1:
Even if it does affect your supply, you have to sleep. Anyone who tells you that you have to wake up at night *while your baby is sleeping* in order to pump does not have your best interest at heart.


Situation 2: I wouldn’t pump during the day if you are already feeding him every 2 hours. You probably aren’t pumping much with such a tiny baby anyway. It hardly seems worth it.


Situation 3: I held all of my kids a lot and put them in a swing, took them on walks, or put them in a bouncer to sleep. You have to stop doing most of that by the time they are 4-5 months old because they start to roll over and pull themselves out of it. None of my kids had trouble transitioning to their stationary crib after that.


Situation 4: Routines are great. You aren’t going to have much of a routine at 1 month old, though. Most babies settle into a natural routine with two naps a day at around 4 months old.


Situation 5: If you are going back to work or you want to be able to leave your baby in someone else’s care for more than a couple of hours, then you have to let them get used to a bottle. Not doing so is a recipe for disaster.

That being said, I think you are making life too difficult if you are both building a freezer stash AND supplementing. Nurse your baby now or have someone else feed pumped milk from a bottle, and use more formula when you go back to work.



Situation 1: I pump once after the first morning feed for about 10 minutes while he eats on the other side. I get 3-4 ounces. I also collect some in the Hakkas while I feed on the other side. I bag about 8oz a day from that.

I’ve only give a couple of bottles but it’s been great to be able to supplement with a bottle of pumped milk so I can get some sleep.

Situation 4: We are talking about making a bedtime routine. That’s pretty much it for the routine right now.


You’re supplementing with pumped milk? I would have someone give a bottle every day.

I did a bedtime routine with my first and not with my second. (After that, the routines revolved around older kids.). All of my kids were great sleepers. The routine didn’t matter.


It’s happened a couple of times where I was tired and DH gave a bottle of pumped milk so I could sleep longer. It’s not a regular occurrence but he has no problem taking a bottle so far.



Make it a regular occurrence.


How regular?


Once a day, roughly.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Do not put chemicals in your child instead of breast milk.


This gets an award for dumbest DCUM comment ever
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