| OP I mean this kindly. Everything you’ve posted here reveals a profound lack of confidence. If you can’t believe in yourself, it will be tough to convince someone else to believe in you. I would start there. |
I have done this. I'm in my 50s, individual contributor, once a high potential employee. Once I was passed over and didn't get an interview "due to the strength of the applicant pool". The next time I got an interview. Had one with my executive that went fairly well and a paired interview with two executives that wasn't great because they were distracted and asked weird questions. The job went to a young dad with less experience who displays that busy bee, go getter attitude that doesn't produce more but is ostentatiously associated with getting promoted. On balance it was good I did it, but I did bump.my head on the glass ceiling again. I do think it's worth trying as long as you don't embarrass yourself. As I said above, a certain amount of ostentatious effort displaying is part of the game. It's very easy for bosses to overlook people for promotion if you're not a favorite. This could give you a chance to talk about your promotion goals in a way that will get them to help you further even if you don't get the job. |
What would a man do? |
A pp. Yes...women tend to think much more about the convenience and interpersonal politics. Guys just apply. If you prepare there is no way you will be a nuisance. |
PP again. I meant to say that I’m sure you’re qualified and capable. But you’ll need to convince yourself of that first. You’re a known asset and that has great value. The reason employers interview internal candidates isn’t a courtesy or to protect morale. It’s far riskier to take someone from the outside and they’ve already invested in you. Prepare and remember your value. You are not a nuisance. |