Is just 2 months of dating to invite someone to a wedding?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Bringing a significant other to weddings, especially ones where you are not close to the bride or groom or part of the wedding party, is really not a big deal.


It can be for the man. Most don't own a tux, and would have to rent one for $ just to attend a "party" where they don't know anyone and endure a stifling suit for hours of boredom.
Sounds like a great way to lose a guy quick. Maybe Goldie Hawn's daughter could make a sequel to "How to lose a guy in 15 days" or something.


Tux??? If it's that kind of wedding, and OP is slumming it with the guy, OP can pay for the tux.



She could hire a male escort if it came to that. Have a Fabio guy on her arm impressing the work friends. Would certainly steal the bride's thunder.
Anonymous
Totally fine for a coworker/acquaintance wedding. Too soon for family or close friend wedding.
Anonymous
I once went on a first date to a wedding. We were co-workers, and knew each other for about a week beforehand. It was a ton of fun - no pressure at all. The relationship didn't work, but not because of that.
Anonymous

After two short months of dating. Nope, wouldn’t invite him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We're in our 40s. It's only 2 months but by the time of the wedding it will be 4 months. We see each other all the time and I could see him becoming my husband if things continue as they are.
It's a coworkers wedding, work in a medical office just staff attending no bosses. Too soon?


After 60 days?
Anonymous
I wasn't personally invited to have a date to a wedding unless we had been together for a year.

I think it's too soon.
Anonymous
If it’s a friend‘s wedding or the kid of a coworker I would absolutely ask someone I was dating for only a couple of months, it’s just a fairly elaborate date at that point and you get to see them really dressed up which is kind of fun.

There is zero chance I would take someone I was only dating for two months to a family wedding, I’m pretty sure if she met everyone she would politely decline any future plans.
Anonymous
Op here. Definitely not a tux wedding we'll be playing corn hole at the reception. Ilk bring it up see what he says.
Anonymous
If you are already sleeping together it is not too soon.
Anonymous
The wedding is 2 months away. No one needs an RSVP two months out. You are in too much of a hurry Op.
Anonymous
Did you even get a +1 for the wedding?

Talk to the coworker first before you bring it up to the person you’re dating
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