they have to keep doing it so they can find ramanujans |
| It's not that they serve as a proxy or some sort of secret signal of wealth. It's that colleges want students who are well rounded, and wealth allows you to pursue more ECs, or pursue the more extensively. So the wealthy student has an advantage. There was a time when ECs were by and large something you did through schools (sports, music, etc.) so theoretically everyone was operating on the same playing field. Not so much the case anymore. |
I think colleges are looking for potential donors once you get in. Full pay is not the same as potential development cases. |
Obviously, free programs are completely identical to expensive programs, which is why all kids go to free programs and expensive programs don't exist. (I do think that super expensive programs are generally not worth it, even when you have money, but clearly there are advantages, especially compared to city run or free stuff.) |
| Of course they are. EC opportunities are much more wealth-dependent than SAT scores. That said, you won’t be able to turn anyone into a gifted athlete or musician, but you have to have the funds to enter the playing field. My DC has been taking private music lessons from a highly qualified teacher for 10 years and expenses adds up. Not to mention the the cost of the instrument, repairs, entry fees, etc. |
Yes, and a much better one than SAT/GPA. |
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Sailing
Rowing Equestrian Lacrosse Ski Racing |
How come colleges say they only expect students to take the most difficult courses offered by their school, but don't apply the same to extracurriculars? |
| The type of wealth that matters to elite school admissions officers is obvious without ECs. |
No one is talking about earning scholarships or getting in on merit. We’re talking about signaling that you’re full pay. And a potential donor. And a kid with a certain upper class background who might fit in. |
Not sure, my kids did sailing, rowing, lacrosse, golf but most expensive was volleyball. |
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What type of wealth? Full pay or donor? We chased merit as full pay and better privates didn’t give us any, only public’s. Go figure.
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Because you have to fly to beach locales? |
This is a great question. How would a kid look who led tons of ECs but all in school? Like Class Pres, Ed in Chief school paper, head of 3 other clubs, various in-school awards - is that even impressive anymore? Or considered limited impact? |
OP here. Exactly! Just stop the pretending already. |