"Sex clouds your judgment"

[Anonymous]

It is completely opposite for men. It is the horniness before sex that clouds judgement. There's a reason why it is colloquially called "post-nut clarity".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes to both sexes, but in the case of men... oxytocin (or the "love hormone") literally clouds men's judgment. Orgasms make them more complacent and increase their bond with a partner (assuming they aren't a sex addict), while semen retention makes them more driven... especially towards pursuing women. Making frequent love to Rosy Palm makes a man an unmotivated sap in general, and they're still centering their free time around women... They're just 2D is all.

No matter what you do, your judgment is going to be clouded by others to some degree. You might as well make sure it's clouded by a truly phenomenal person.

The bolded does not take into account men (and women) who have enough integrity and self-control to please themselves rather than cheat or get into a relationship that is unwise for various reasons or pay for sex. Your generalization is unwarranted.

[Anonymous]

It does for this man with a new partner, but only for so long. Then I start to see clearly again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is completely opposite for men. It is the horniness before sex that clouds judgement. There's a reason why it is colloquially called "post-nut clarity".

The male sex drive is a terrible and powerful force. It's made morons out of many

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is completely opposite for men. It is the horniness before sex that clouds judgement. There's a reason why it is colloquially called "post-nut clarity".

This.

[Anonymous]

I have noticed that I'm not always eager to repeat with women who are incredible in bed, so I don't think this happens to me. But I do need to be very attracted to a woman for me to want to repeat, and that does depend on chemistry to some extent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is completely opposite for men. It is the horniness before sex that clouds judgement. There's a reason why it is colloquially called "post-nut clarity".

This happens to women too... just less often, you know, because you guys suck at making us cum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the poster who wrote that.

I don't think it's "women get attached via sex so you'll get attached to someone you don't like". There's plenty of times I've had sex with a guy and lost interest afterwards.

It's that if you ever had intense sexual chemistry with someone, like the OP of that thread did, you'll overlook massive red flags. So you need to get to know someone first and make a decision BEFORE you introduce sexual chemistry into the mix.

It's just one of those things where if you've been there, you get it. Good sexual chemistry can be a drug.

I have been there and I agree. Likening it to a drug is very apt.