I know it's mean, but i am kind of over people saying 'to x's point'

[Anonymous]

I have a coworker that says “to that point” multiple times a conversation. I think I don’t mind the phrase normally but every time he says it, I just think about how he’s using that phrase again and i forget what he’s talking about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The even more egregious version of this phrase that my boss says all the time is “said another way”. No, the way I said it was the way I wanted it said. I don’t need to translate or restate things for me— I speak English.

Maybe your boss was trying to rephrase your point more clearly, or to bring in other relevant context. Maybe the way _you_ want it said isn’t the best way to communicate the idea.

He says this to everyone, not just me. “Said another way” is a stupid phrase and he should stop saying it. I will die on this hill.

[Anonymous]

I understand why people say it, but it is overused.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Referring to someone else's point already made in conversation, and adding your thoughts to advance the conversation, is certainly better than repeating what's already been said and making a conversation tedious.

I guess I don't see the problem with it.

I appreciate this in a business context as it is better than the man stealing the idea from the woman.

Too many times I’ve seen a woman mention something and get no traction. Fifteen minutes later, when a man suggests the same thing, it’s suddenly the best idea ever.