Is there an anonymous way to file complaint at CHRVA?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ya once my daughters are out of the volleyball i am going to go all out but until then they will get retaliated against so have to fight to stay anonymous. But i also feel bad about witnessing something so wrong and not being able to do anything

I'm so sorry this happened to you, its terrible. You should definitely reach out to a CHRVA leader not affiliated with the club in any way and tell them what happened. It doesn't matter if the coach/club has a member on the board or staff, its still wrong. In fact, if a CHRVA board/staff member is part of a club where this happens, then that is even more concerning because it could allow the club to become even more aggressive in their actions if not called out. Yes, you are potentially protecting your daughter from retaliation by not speaking out, but by holding off until your DDs finish playing you just guarantee many other girls suffer through exactly the same behavior.

Email/call the ethics leader or commissioner directly and tell them what is happening, ask to keep your info anonymous and then ask them how to address the situation.

Thank you, i really appreciate the support and understanding. It is insanely frustrating to watch the coaches do that and also for the club to feel like they don't have to do anything about it. This is the same coach who is also verbally abusive and play favorites like crazy with the girls on her team. Most people here have figured out the club im talking about but for those of you who are still looking for their young kids to start at good clubs, let me know and i will share the name.

I would be interested in learning the name of the club if you think this won't affect your family.

[Anonymous]

And perhaps that specific coach... (but I would understand if one wishes to remain anonymous on here).

[Anonymous]

If i were to guess i think it is Maryland Juniors and the coach that family is talking about is a senior coach there and we have heard about her from other friends and families over the years. She coaches 2 girls teams each year and you can find her if you go their staffing page. We are also here in Maryland and had a colleagues daughter play for her and heard horror stories from their season.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If i were to guess i think it is Maryland Juniors and the coach that family is talking about is a senior coach there and we have heard about her from other friends and families over the years. She coaches 2 girls teams each year and you can find her if you go their staffing page. We are also here in Maryland and had a colleagues daughter play for her and heard horror stories from their season.

That is right !