Do you ever correct people's English?

Anonymous
The only person I correct is my 4 year old. If he uses a word correctly, I will kindly tell him the right word. But he is the type of kid who will ask me how to use a word. Poor kid, I'm a horrible role model for grammar.

But I'd never correct and adult, unless they could possibly offend someone with the missuse of a word. I don't mean offend the grammer police, I mean use a word like faggot. Or if I was having trouble understanding the actual meaning. Then I may ask several questions to get to the meaning.

Would I want someone to correct me? Only if I was using a word so incorrectly that the meaning was confused or offensive.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How would you say Worchester or Forked River? Some names of places are not known to people from out of the area. I have lived here most of my life and 99% of the people say Grosvenor wrong

Mind your own business, is it harming your relationship?


wustah and forked rivah -- wicked good
Anonymous
Months ago a friend was talking about baby wipes she had purchased. I had no idea what she was talking about until I glanced at the box.
She said that they had "shee-ah" butter in them. I wasn't about to correct her mispronunciation of shea butter.
Anonymous
I'm an editor, so I WANT to correct everybody. But I do it only with my husband and my parents. Especially pronunciation of proper names--the person will hear it enough times and get it eventually. I think I might have corrected a close friend who had just moved here and pronounced Clarendon "clair-EN-don."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Miss Grammar, No decent person does that. Who would ever dream of being so rude?


Only on DCUM where there are grammar and spelling police.
Anonymous
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Anonymous
I think it depends on a situation. If DH and I are in the car and I say something grammatically incorrect and he corrects me, it's no big deal. I do it to him too. If we are at a dinner party among 20 friends and he makes a point to correct me in front of everyone, I'd chomp one of his testicles off.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think it depends on a situation. If DH and I are in the car and I say something grammatically incorrect and he corrects me, it's no big deal. I do it to him too. If we are at a dinner party among 20 friends and he makes a point to correct me in front of everyone, I'd chomp one of his testicles off.


Lol, yes agreed.
Anonymous
I have a co-worker who says "blase, blase, blase" instead of "blah, blah, blah." We're feds and when we're on-site meeting with state officials, she gets looks. She also says "from the gecko." That gets looks too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I have a co-worker who says "blase, blase, blase" instead of "blah, blah, blah." We're feds and when we're on-site meeting with state officials, she gets looks. She also says "from the gecko." That gets looks too.


Oh. my. god. That would drive me nuts.

A past boss of mine (hideous stupid bitch) called Chick-Fil-A "Chick a Flick". Wouldn't be so bad but she loved the damned place and wanted to eat there every day.
Anonymous
I correct my husband because I don't want my kids to learn his mistakes.
Anonymous
My old boss used to call the Georgetown store "Little Candlelonia" instead of Little Caledonia. It still makes me chuckle.

This is an interesting thread. I wouldn't be offended at all if someone corrected me one-on-one, but it's different if you're in a group. My mom corrected me for my entire childhood, so I guess I got used to it!

I figure it's better to be corrected by a pal than to repeat the offense in front of a group at work.
Anonymous
I also correct my 4 y.o.'s double negatives - can't stand hearing it even if it is wrong to correct. Beyond that, no.
Anonymous
It doesn't count if you correct your child. They are still learning to speak. Correcting a 40 year old is much different.
Anonymous
No. It's rude. Plus, I don't care.
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