Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She has lupus and bipolar disorder, has had a kidney transplant and says she deals with SIBO. She also had multiple rehab stays for alcohol / drug use when she was younger. She has also talked about dealing with anxiety and depression.
That is a lot for a partner to take on in a new spouse.
This is a very weird response.
I guess I was on a relationship thread that was all about how you should never marry someone with any mental health conditions and that if anyone lets their mental health affect their partner, they are a really selfish and awful person. Selena talks a lot about how her boyfriends cares about her and supports her mental health etc - all things that people say on here a partner shouldn't have to do for their spouse's mental health.
People support mental health generally but then you see these threads about a husband with mental health conditions and it is all just criticism and negativity and how anyone with mental health conditions that impact others are just deadweight and should be dumped asap. My thoughts crossed threads.