My mother doesn’t seem to care about her granddaughter(my daughter):

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I are trying to save up to pay for our daughter’s college, but lately, my mother has been making this very difficult. She keeps asking for money because she didn’t save properly for retirement. I wouldn’t have a problem helping if I didn’t have my own family to support. Our daughter gets bad grades and isn’t involved in athletics or any other extracurricular activities, so no college is going to give her a scholarship and my mother knows this. Some grandparents add to their grandchild’s college fund; we’re just asking her not to take from her grandchild’s college fund.

You very deliberately say "her grandchild"...yeah, the young woman is "your daughter", you and your husband's responsibility.

I never said my daughter was my mother's responsibility. All I'm saying is that if my mother is going to have an effect on my daughter's life, it should be a positive one. Right now, our daughter would be better off without her grandmother's interference. My mother has an obligation not to meddle in her granddaughter's life in the same way I have an obligation not to meddle in your(a complete stranger's) life.

You are passive and passive aggressive at the same time.

[Anonymous]

I'm honestly shocked so many people fell for this troll.