| I would send nothing—it’s an odd dynamic, like is the dad then going to text your daughter to thank her? |
| Wine |
| OP here. Thank you for the suggestions! Like what some of you recommended, I might not send her with anything after all. Someone said that she was invited solely to keep their son company and I agree. |
+1 it’s not like she is friends with the Dad. |
| A card that says "Hope you. have a hubba bubba birthday!" along with a pack of Hubba Bubba gum. |
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Omg don't send her with anything.
How awkward and embarrassing for the dad if she shows up with a gift. |
| Birthday card. |
You’re hilarious! My DH would love that. |
I don't think it is expected for you to give a present to a boyfriend's! dad!!! Good grief |
| Gifts are never expected but always classy. |
+1 it sends the wrong message |
Exactly. The mom, maybe you get flowers. Dads want nothing from their son's girlfriend |
| A book? One the family might like? |
Flowers for the party would always be appropriate. |
| How about she makes some yummy homemade chocolate chip cookies and takes a small plate with her. |