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My son was always moderately athletic but soccer has really increased his athleticism over the past 3 years. He's had to push himself and work really hard to improve certain skills that seem to come a bit more naturally to other players. He's developing a tremendous work ethic and seeing the results of his hard work has given him confidence. He's finding his voice on the pitch and getting more comfortable with being a leader. He's developing mental toughness and resiliency. He's also learned a lot about sportsmanship (sometimes from seeing what NOT to do). He's learning about making sure his body is properly fueled and rested so that he can play his best.
This is why I love team sports! I probably wouldn't have chosen soccer for my kid if it were up to me (I played other sports and have more familiarity with them) but soccer happens to be my kid's thing and I love watching him experience all of this. |
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My wife and I are hard working people who managed to buy a house in one of the best school districts in the area. We were kind of young for the area, and do not overly fit in with the more wealthy folks in the area. As such play dates, and making friends for our daughter was hard, as mom and dad both work and at young ages many times play dates happen with parents who are friends.
I signed her up for soccer, and it greatly improved her social life, she picked it up very quickly she is a great athlete. Now she was being invited to all the sports teams, and made friends who even car pooled with her. It was life changing for us in the area we live. She has now moved on to a top team in the area, but maintains friendships with her local travel team. For a kid who struggled socially sports opened many doors, and as she is accelling on the field hopefully it opens many more doors. Best thing I ever did was force her to sign up for travel soccer. |
| Why in the heck did this Mr. Rogers thread get started? Yawn! |
For how bored you are, you are in here reading and replying. |
Aw snap! You got me bruh! No cap! |
| DS's team is very close, both the kids and the families. Soccer has been the gateway to all those connections |
Not when you add in showcases, scrimmages, playoffs, etc. |
| Honestly, every weekend during the fall and spring it's a good story for us. My U12 son love soccer, is good at it, and win or lose enjoys stepping into the arena each game and doing his best. And I love watching him and look forward to it every game. |
This really is not accurate for high level soccer. So it depends. |