50+ men with 20s and 30s women

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Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.

From US? Russia?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.

This is good and normal. I had friends in my twenties with Dad's dating women their age it really effed them up and made them question their fathers.

[Anonymous]

I’ve never dated anyone within a decade if my kids (oldest is now 13).

But, whenever I’ve dated someone much younger, they’ve told me I treat them much better than the guys they’ve dated their own age.

It makes sense, the younger, hotter partner has the power in the relationship, so I want to make sure they’re happy in the relationship.

[Anonymous]

I had a friend in high school who ended up dating one of the dads when she was in her 20s. Was a friend of the guys daughter in high school.
Got married, because he was fairly wealthy, they had 4 more kids together, and she is in her 50s and is a nursemaid to her dh in his 90s.

[Anonymous]

I know one couple like this. He just turned 60 and she is 39, they've been together for 9ish years and just had twins together.

They both work but he is the breadwinner. He does *all* of the overnights with the twins (solo) so she can get her much-needed 9-10 hours of sleep per night. He also does the cooking, yard work and home repairs/renos. She keeps the house clean, decorates, does the laundry.

Honestly, she is kind of immature and demanding, but I think it works because he is older and has less Fs to give, so just rolls with a lot of it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 53, girlfriend is 34 and it’s the same as any other relationship. She’s wise beyond her years and I’m immature so we meet right in the middle. It’s going to end when she realizes she wants kids and it will hurt but for now we’re both very happy.

Oh hi, im 54F and bf34
All is well

[Anonymous]

My dad was 46 when he married my then 23-year-old stepmother, who was the same age as my older brother. This essentially ended my relationship with my father as she wanted nothing to do with any of his kids.

[Anonymous]

Late 40’s m dating a 24 year old f. No long term plans with her but it’s been fun feeling alive again after a horrible 20 year marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Late 40’s m dating a 24 year old f. No long term plans with her but it’s been fun feeling alive again after a horrible 20 year marriage.

Elaborate!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.

I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.

I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.

Does your daughter know?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 53, girlfriend is 34 and it’s the same as any other relationship. She’s wise beyond her years and I’m immature so we meet right in the middle. It’s going to end when she realizes she wants kids and it will hurt but for now we’re both very happy.

How dare you be honest on this forum?

All the women complain that their husbands of similar age are immature. Then when older men date younger women to match that maturity level, the Snark or jealousy train pulls into the station

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.

Do you go on dates or is it really more of a casual relationship?

It's a real relationship, hopefully forever. She feels the same way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.

Do you go on dates or is it really more of a casual relationship?

It's a real relationship, hopefully forever. She feels the same way.

Will you be able to scratch that have children itch when it comes to it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.

Do you go on dates or is it really more of a casual relationship?

It's a real relationship, hopefully forever. She feels the same way.

Will you be able to scratch that have children itch when it comes to it?

You mean can I perform? Yes, no problem.