Men & Women dynamics

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a man (whether DH or bf) tells his DW / gf how to dress or how to act, do most women comply? For example, if you two are going out to an event and the woman would rather not wear a dress that shows off too much skin but the man tells her to wear it. And once at the party, he’s telling her when to put on her shawl, when to take it off. And the woman is just doing everything he says. Is this normal?

I don’t think it is. But perhaps I’m looking at it the wrong way? Maybe she is willing to please him in that way? When I’ve seen this happen I’m always surprised because the women are usually hard working with successful careers, mothers, socially capable.

Every couple has a different dynamic so hard for an observer to judge.

[Anonymous]

Personally, I wouldn't be accepting of it but others can decide for themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um. … where are you seeing these men? Bad hallmark movies or intro to porn???

I’m so curious about this too. Is this a friend? Was your friend complaining that she didn’t like the dress her husband asked her to wear? Or is this a movie or reality television you watched?

[Anonymous]

I have kind of a submissive kink. I would like this in certain contexts.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like Kanye West. He makes his wife dress like a sex worker to go eat at the Cheesecake Factory. No amount of money would persuade me to marry someone like that.