Why are they so many insecure young men now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

NP. Same!

[Anonymous]

Men are naturally stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are naturally stupid.

Indeed they are. As are women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

Man here and I believe it. Older women do things like respond to your texts, and show up when they say they will or apologize if they can't make it. Basic stuff like that is a rarity among young women these days, sadly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

Except young men would be Gen Z. And men will say literally anything when trying to get into a gullible woman's pants lmao. Looks like you feel for it

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

Except young men would be Gen Z. And men will say literally anything when trying to get into a gullible woman's pants lmao. Looks like you feel for it

By "young men", we're referring to 20-30s men. Not Gen Z.

[Anonymous]

I wonder how many of these responses are from mothers who have sons? It's your job to raise your sons to be men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

Except young men would be Gen Z. And men will say literally anything when trying to get into a gullible woman's pants lmao. Looks like you feel for it

I don’t “feel” for anything, kitten.

Perhaps one day you’ll actually understand men as well you think you understand them right now. I get it….I used to be you. Then I got older, and wiser. You might, too. But right now your youthful arrogance is limiting you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder how many of these responses are from mothers who have sons? It's your job to raise your sons to be men.

I have two sons. I’m raising them to be just the sort of men most of you would loathe out loud but lust for inside. And I hope they’ll one day marry young women from central or South America, or Eastern Europe, and not some spoiled American GenZ brat with a head full of TicTok stupidity and neofeminist entitlement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

Man here and I believe it. Older women do things like respond to your texts, and show up when they say they will or apologize if they can't make it. Basic stuff like that is a rarity among young women these days, sadly.

The incel has entered the chat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder how many of these responses are from mothers who have sons? It's your job to raise your sons to be men.

Well, dads play a big role too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

NP. Same!

me too but I can't quite put my finger on why

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder how many of these responses are from mothers who have sons? It's your job to raise your sons to be men.

I have two sons. I’m raising them to be just the sort of men most of you would loathe out loud but lust for inside. And I hope they’ll one day marry young women from central or South America, or Eastern Europe, and not some spoiled American GenZ brat with a head full of TicTok stupidity and neofeminist entitlement.

You wish. And honestly, that's a little creepy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Since the pandemic there seems to be an uptick in the number of young men identifying as "alphas" and "lions." Most of these supposedly mentally tough men lack any critical thinking skills at all and blindly follow leaders like Elon Musk, Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate etc. How do we address this problem?

This is like asking why are the deer so jumpy in the middle of deer-hunting season.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe their just fed up will millennial women. Can’t really say I blame them. I’m a Gen X’r and men in their 30’s have told me several times women our generation are more desirable (as long as they haven’t let themselves go), and it has nothing to do with cougar fantasies. They just find women their age insufferable. I do as well. I understand their disdain.

Younger Gen X woman here (77), and I understand this. The problem with Gen Z women is that they've taken the needed corrections/disdain for men too far. They are now in overcorrection territory, and it's made the Z women obnoxious. Gen X women may be more desirable in some regards because we have some measure of tradition left in us.