Right guy. Wrong situation.

[Anonymous]

Right guy but wrong girl. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

… Jessie's girl

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Right guy but wrong girl. Sorry.

snap. are you dissin OP?

[Anonymous]

Troll post. Too little details in order to string us along.

[Anonymous]

What’s the problem OP?

I dated an amazing guy who lives in northern British Columbia. We both have young kids and ex-spouses so there is no way we can move for each other. We broke up but keep in touch. It sucks but I’m doing my best to move on.

If it can’t work, it can’t work, ie for all intents and purposes, he is not the right guy. But just make sure it can’t work before you move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is he your boss’s son? Your frenemy? conflicting religion? Opposition in politics? Your Best friend’s ex? Your upstairs Neighbor?

Lol. No. It's 2 things. 1. Because of our professional relationship dating is out of the question. 2. He's from out of state. Which I know for some people long distance isn't an issue, but neither of us would relocate permanently, and even if 2 could somehow be overcome, there's number one.

And the really" cruel" the universe is laughing at me type thing is 10 years ago we lived like 30 minutes from each other, and our paths crossed probably so many times, but we didn't meet then, and if we had then 1 and 2 wouldn't be an issue.

[Anonymous]

Mayberry your therapist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s the problem OP?

I dated an amazing guy who lives in northern British Columbia. We both have young kids and ex-spouses so there is no way we can move for each other. We broke up but keep in touch. It sucks but I’m doing my best to move on.

If it can’t work, it can’t work, ie for all intents and purposes, he is not the right guy. But just make sure it can’t work before you move on.

I'm sorry that's a tough situation

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop dating married guys.

I would never!. He's not married or taken in any other way .Just unavailable to me.

That’s not a thing, sweetie.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mayberry your therapist.

Not my therapist. Like I said it's a professional relationship and while he's not a supervisor or anything like that it's definitely frowned upon to have a relationship of any kind.

[Anonymous]

If it is meant to be you will come back together when the timing is right

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it is meant to be you will come back together when the timing is right

NP here. I believe this. I’ve heard of couples who overcame quite a lot to be together. I don’t think a job necessarily should stop anyone. Most jobs can be replaced. Your chance to be happy with the right person may be replaced by someone who is “good enough.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mayberry your therapist.

Not my therapist. Like I said it's a professional relationship and while he's not a supervisor or anything like that it's definitely frowned upon to have a relationship of any kind.

Which one of you is more senior? People date and marry co-workers all the time and life goes on. I know plenty of people who married their work seniors (including the Obamas). True love and a good marriage are more important than a rule.

[Anonymous]

This OP prefers hard to get.

This is based on her teaser, coquettish language. Who cares? I’ve already lost interest.

People like to do this in different realms/ Or post is a troll. Same difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s the problem OP?

I dated an amazing guy who lives in northern British Columbia. We both have young kids and ex-spouses so there is no way we can move for each other. We broke up but keep in touch. It sucks but I’m doing my best to move on.

If it can’t work, it can’t work, ie for all intents and purposes, he is not the right guy. But just make sure it can’t work before you move on.

Your kids won't be young forever and you can both move. Keeping in touch is good bc you never know what life will bring.