ES office staff are terrible with transparency. I've encountered a lot of disrespectful people working in these offices-if you are unhappy with your job/school I'm sorry... but stop taking it out on everyone(especially subs) who walks in. ES seems really chaotic....maybe these people are just exhausted and moving through the motions-but stop acting like subs and staff are expendable! |
You are incorrect. They are not volunteering for a PTA event. Sit down. |
What if you went into work and your supervisor said “hey our custodian called in sick, we need you to clean toilets. Don’t worry, you’ll still get paid.” Nothing wrong with cleaning toilets (in fact one of my favorite jobs was when I was a custodian in college) but jobs are not interchangeable based on need. |
Although I agree with this, I think she is upset that they did not call to inform her she was no longer needed for the position she signed up, and given her the choice to optionally come in for different duties. She didn’t sign up to work for cafeteria duty. I believe subs have a choice of what they signup for before going in. Some subs do not do it for money and they don’t need to money. They do it because they enjoy subbing in certain areas of interest. |
You volunteered because your kid(s) benefit from it, not because you’re such a good person |
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I’d like to say I would have just left but in that situation I probably would have stayed too because of the awkwardness. I wouldn’t want to look difficult and like I was above taking care of the lunchroom. But I sure wouldn’t go back! There are other places you can sub at right?
For what it’s worth, at the school where I sub, if they wind up not needing me they send home and pay me anyway. My sub coordinator is unusually awesome but I think yours is unusually crappy. |
| Regarding the loudness of the cafeteria- try loop earplugs!! I use them. You can still carry on conversations, it just takes the total decimal down and drowns out excess noise. |
You clearly don’t do I’m not sure why you felt the need to comment—maybe it’s been a few days since you got special attention for having TWO MASTERS DEGREES and you just felt the need to tell someone how smart you are. |
THIS!!!! |
Plus that they paid you as if you were doing filing for them the way you expected you would be, not that you’re paid as if you have two graduate degrees and need to be a janitor for one day. And that they could make you janitor at any time in the future again without notice “based on need”. Absolutely zero chance the PP would really be fine with any of this if it really happened to her. |
When I was a SAHM with kids in school, I subbed a few times a week to feel less guilty about paying someone to clean my home when in theory I should have even the one doing it. I’m really good at helping kids learn and I’m terrible at cleaning. I’d be so irritated if I was in OP’s shoes. But also you shouldn’t have to do a job that’s completely different from the one you signed up for. Nobody should. It’s a little degrading to say “you’re getting paid, you’ll do what I want regardless of what you understood the job to be.” |
PP you replied. This makes sense. To the others who replied nastily to my post, wow, I struck a nerve. Have a great day! |
Well yes, when you say borderline awful things, you do usually strike a nerve. Now you know. |
| I don’t blame you for not wanting to do this but it isn’t demeaning. Do you look down on the people who monitor the cafeterias? Probably not. |
| Our ES did this last year all the time. We had a 6th grader AAP teacher who was retiring and burning through saved up leave. She had a smaller and well-behaved class. The school would post for a sub for that class, which was a good gig, and then redeploy the sub to a special ed class or much more behaviorally difficult class, and then have the AAP class move into another 6th grade class for the day OR sit out in the pod with minimal supervision. They did this all year. |