Love being held

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lucky you, OP! I'm leaving a relationship similar to the one you describe having with your ex, and this gives me hope.

Good luck PP! I find this a good way to tell if the relationship is a green flag. The safe, calm, relaxed feeling instead of intrigue, excitement, insecurity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP - I'm very lucky because he's a snuggler and a good sleeper. I think he could probably even snuggle all night long but I'm the one who usually rolls over because I get too hot to sleep. But watching TV I use his lap as a pillow.

yea, my DH loves to snuggle and touch me, but I can't be touched when I'm sleeping. It wakes me up. Plus he's like a furnace, and I get too hot if I am near him in bed. He said the solution is for me to sleep naked, but that doesn't help. I still get too hot. He sleeps in the nude with just a thin duvet, even in the middle of winter.

[Anonymous]

I hope this cuddler stays with you but god forbid if he doesn't, there are free huggers and professional cuddlers, at least there were before pandemic.

[Anonymous]

I love it too. My boobs hurt the second half of my cycle, and I love the feel and warmth of hands holding them up even if it doesn’t lead to anything.

[Anonymous]

Holding my GF is my favorite part of the day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Holding my GF is my favorite part of the day.

Awww

[Anonymous]

Being in my man’s arms feels like the safest place in the world. All problems come to a stop during that time. It’s magical.

[Anonymous]

A few women have told me this. There have been weeks when there were two in one week. It was a little embarrassing. We weren't exclusive in any of those situations but some of them seemed to hope that I couldn't possibly be so emotionally atuned to her if I was seeing other women. I really did like them.

[Anonymous]

I’m so happy for you OP. I crave hugs from my DH 30 yrs in so I get it. Thankfully, he likes hugs too.

[Anonymous]

What’s sad is that I barely remember my ex husband holding me and cuddling me. But oh my goodness. My boyfriend holds me at night and I swear to God, it’s like being swaddled. I feel so freaking secure, loved, and peaceful. I can’t believe I didn’t have that feeling for so many years. He like holds me so tight and so close… it’s just magical. He’s got the best arms too. My goodness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A few women have told me this. There have been weeks when there were two in one week. It was a little embarrassing. We weren't exclusive in any of those situations but some of them seemed to hope that I couldn't possibly be so emotionally atuned to her if I was seeing other women. I really did like them.

Have you stopped on either one ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s sad is that I barely remember my ex husband holding me and cuddling me. But oh my goodness. My boyfriend holds me at night and I swear to God, it’s like being swaddled. I feel so freaking secure, loved, and peaceful. I can’t believe I didn’t have that feeling for so many years. He like holds me so tight and so close… it’s just magical. He’s got the best arms too. My goodness.

Do you have an underlying anxiety disorder? If so, be careful of who you’re attracted to just bc they dispel your anxiety. Btdt.

[Anonymous]

I don’t have underlying anxiety disorders. Ex DH and I just got used to not cuddling. I would sleep on the edge of the bed. It was just unfortunate that we let that happen for so long. But with my bf, he says come here, he pulls me close & then puts his arms around me and I just love it 😍

[Anonymous]

So because of this thread I told my BF that being in his arms is my best and favorite place and it made him so happy, thank you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So because of this thread I told my BF that being in his arms is my best and favorite place and it made him so happy, thank you.

Aww. OP here I call it hug therapy.