No he is five. Otherwise I agree. |
| This is nuts. The early elementary years are for trying different things. I would not commit time and money for this age. |
| Only join travel if/when your kid wants to. Meaning they like or enjoy the sport enough to practice on their own. Otherwise, it'll be just parents pressing a kid to do what they don't want and that will lead to burn out. |
The answer is yes; however you already lost one year if playing up. The earlier the better. Rec is just playing for fun, with friends, not for good players with D1 scholarships in the future. |
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My oldest started playing at 3 and then went to club at U5 (complete money grab in a "league" that just played against other teams from out club) we didn't know any better and thought since our kid was good that we might as well. Shes now on the top U14 team and with only 3 from the original U5 team on the roster.
My youngest started later at u7. This time we stayed in rec and went to a smaller club to do competitive. The parents are way more relaxed and the coach loves our kid so she gets all kinds of minutes. Different clubs work for different kids. Top talent will find their way to the top teams. It doesn't matter what club they play for. |
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If they are playing up with 8 year olds then no. Like someone said, not skill but attention and maturity. Those expectations would make it difficult and not fun for most kids. And why go there, at 5?
A U6 league is a complete money grab but probably harmless. You’ll still have the daisy pickers and mob ball but it will be a little more organized. Most of the parents will be much more into it. My vote rec and some extra classes, they aren’t all sharks and minnows. We did some with skills and scrimmages. And since you were athletic get a pop up goal and go to the elementary school. Skills gained and family time. You have a five year old, things are fluid. Go with your gut. Don’t believe the hype, it all works out. U9 is not to late to enter travel soccer. |
Doesn't explain how starting playing at 6 years old equals guaranteed burnout. |
I don’t think that’s true of everyone. DS’s good friend plays for DC United. He started at u10 and was placed on a low team at a huge club. He wasn’t doing any crazy training either. You can start soccer at 3 or even 6 but there’s no need to pay for travel. |
What DMV club has a U6 team? My kid played for Bethesda’s U7 team last year. My understanding was that it was the first year Bethesda had a U7 team and there weren’t many (any?) other U7 teams in the DMV. Surprised to hear there are U6 travel teams in the area. |
BTW, the team played up in a U8 league, I thought because there weren’t any U7 leagues. The existence of a U6 travel team and league surprises me. |
OP. The U6 team doesn't travel. It's a development team within the club and they play other teams within 30 minutes, versus our town program which is all local kids and parents. I suppose what seperates it from a rec league is paid coaches, 2 practices a week, and a light game schedule in Summer, Spring, and Falll. More emphasis on practice than games. We are athletes but neither of us played soccer. At the moment, it is the best fit of the sports we’ve tried. |
I loved the U7 BSC program. It’s obviously not hard core club soccer so absolutely no burnout concern, but it’s much more structured / serious / organized than all the local rec leagues. The kids in the group definitely had a leg up this year at the U8 level, although I highly doubt that will be sustained for more than a year or two. My kid enjoyed it, so definitely no harm, and he definitely got some benefit out of it, but probably not sustained for a significant amount of time. |
| Syc has the DA program that is like this |
This is what I tend to think as someone who started my kids early in a different sport. Starting early gives the kids a leg up for a couple years, but by age 9 or 10 other athletic kids can and will catch up. A lot of great athletes start early but starting early does not make a great athlete, if that makes sense. Do it if you want to and your kid will like it, but not to try to gain some advantage over other kids. |
+100000 |