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i'm not naming names. I'm saying I know it exists and it has not been shown to me and thus I am uncomfortable. they may well have rational reasons but having not seen it, am I just to accept that multiple of my child's teachers had an issue with a speaker on anti semitism but no issue with a speaker on islamophobia. of course they have the right to protest, no one is saying they don't. But I'm not sure I love paying $60k a year per kid for teachers who may not believe that prejudice against my child is something we should be teaching is wrong. |
| I’d like to know more….what school was this? I would find it problematic if teachers were protesting an antisemitism speaker. I agree it would be unsettling. I highly doubt a school would bring in an antisemitism speaker who was highly controversial— so it would concern me that the speaker’s view is that Israel has the right to exist, and THAT is what the teachers found offensive. |
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But why do you assume that they are petitioning against teaching about the topic of antisemitism and why it is wrong?
Couldn't there be a reason this particular speaker is problematic? The topic itself doesn't seem to be the issue. |
| There is nothing to petition about teaching antisemitism. When was the last time you ever heard ANY faculty protesting any speaker at a private school in the DMV? I find this deeply disturbing and also find the posters above disturbing as well. It is the case positive of why there needs to be a speaker at all. |
op - no I agree I dont have all the facts. That's what's confusing. Are we owed any facts? Or i guess we just have to accept that this is the deal and we wont really get answers... |
I’m quite confident they believe that prejudice against Jewish children, or any children, is wrong. Try to take a deep breath here. There are a lot of possible realities. Without knowing what their possible objections are, you seem to be jumping to conclusions. |
I actually think you should absolutely share with the HOS or whomever seems appropriate that you find this unsettling and that without an understanding of the content of the petition, you are concerned that faculty members espouse antisemitic ideas. For now, you don't need to see the actual signatures, but the content of the complaint. Do you have DEI coordinator or parent affinity groups? This is exactly why these roles are significant. They can help you voice your concerns to the school and make sure that you and your child don't feel isolated within the larger community. |
op - there is a jewish parents group, but they have not received a response from the principal, who has also declined to come and speak with the group (new principal). It's all v odd. I think it's a microcosm of the similar situations we saw at harvard, penn etc. I'm sure very similar concerns. |
This |
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It's probably threat inflation. Saying that Palestinian people should be treated humanly caused folks to grasp their pearls.
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Trigger warning: maybe they aren’t as concerned about Judaism itself as they are possible defense of or sympathy for a government that has killed 30k and wounded twice that number in the course of four months. It’ll make your head explode I’m sure but many people believe (many more now than before the start of the war) that Israel shouldn’t have the right to exist in its current incarnation if it continues to behave in this manner. Maybe said teachers have relatives in Gaza who are being bombed relentlessly. Or maybe they are just sentient beings who can see that Israel’s response to the horrors of 10/7 is unconscionable. Or maybe there was no petition at all and this is designed to stoke rage and resentment. To not see how Israel’s actions are breeding the precise anti-Semitism you denounce is the ultimate cognitive dissonance. May ALL their memories be blessings. |
| NP. As described, it would make me very uncomfortable as well, and I would reassess my relationship with the school. I am not Jewish, to be clear. |
Okay. Good luck. |
I am just going to take the OP at her word, why not? This is a web forum not Judge Judy |
I would have someone contact the new media or post something on Twitter. This should be brought to light. |