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My kids grandparents are paying private school tuition. They could put all the money in an irrevocable trust and have us apply for financial aid so they can give them the money later but that feels like making other people pay when you could do it. We donate to the school to help those who need aid go to the school. If I thought all those financial aid kids were sitting on a million with compounding interest while our extended family was paying our way and for them, I don’t think I’d be donating to financial aid. And I say that as someone who needed and received financial aid in college.
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The funds can be used for education before 25. So they should be. You think it's okay for other families' donations to pay the kids tuitions when they have funds available for education? |
It’s insane to me that a family who has $2M to be used for solely for education thinks they are still entitled to FA. |
Exactly |
The trust says it can be used for education |
You should spend some money on a lawyer to resolve your questions, not rely on any advice you get here. Just because the trustee may have the authority to pay for the beneficiaries education, it does not mean that the trustee will or should do so. A trustee might reasonably ask why your children should start paying for their education, when you have been able to do so up to now with the benefit of FA. |
Hopefully that's not the choice. Hopefully the choice will be that the trustee coughs up the money, or the family figures out how to pay tuition without FA. |
Or the trustee could agree that the money should be used. So that the schools financial aid could go to people that actually need it. Not many kids have 1+ million available to them at 25. |
| Wow. Of course the money should be used for their education. Let the people who actually need FA get FA. |
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OP you are also perfectly making the case for why the GOP push for “school choice vouchers” is a complete sham. Rich people will find a way to suck every penny out of the system, ethical or not. While people with less options and funds struggle.
Rich people are really the worst. |
Stupid people aren't so great either. Your comparison is ridiculous. Vouchers would help those people with fewer options by giving them some options for higher performing schools. |
Of course you do. But . . . should you be able to? Your kids each have $1m that can be used for education, and you want to conceal that fact so that they can continue to receive financial aid (which is designed for people who can't afford tuition - which you can). I have no idea whether you will be able to do this or not - don't know anything about the FA process at private schools. But it is a bit of a character test for you, OP. Unfortunately, it looks like you're not scoring well on it. |
+1 this is obscene |
Agree. OP is def leaning into the private school mindset. |
| OP, talk to a professional. This is not the forum for sound advice who thinks nobody deserves FA and I mean nobody. I've seen posts on here from families who live in poverty looking for opportunity for their kids being told to attend public because no one gives that much FA and they wouldn't fit in with rich kids and people who are upper middle class who are told to attend public and people with over 200K HHI told to pay full. |