| I'd take any of those schools even over UMD. |
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All of those choices will provide a better ROI over Towson unless your daughter would be willing to transfer to UMD after a year or two.
I would shell out the money as it will give her a lot more opportunities in the future. |
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that roi website is suspicious. Does it take into consideration opportunity cost of investing the savings in the market, real estate or grad school? I am bracing for a similar situation next year. 3 things:
1) does kid want to live in dmv after school? I worked for 2 fortune 500 companies that recruited at towson and umd. Local companies recruit at towson. after her first job it doesn’t matter. 2) Towson accepts 3 and above for APs. For my 12 AP kid, this could free up time to do double major, 5th year masters or graduate early. 3) Business is a broad topic. If she wants to get a CPA, it doesn’t matter where she goes, she will get a decent roi. If she is set on IB or top consulting, she might not get that at either school and might not even stick with it for more than a couple years. |
Is there a way to narrow down the search in that link? It shows random colleges by major. |
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also does the roi consider loan interest? I don’t agree with it.
Separately, what is the WI aid option? I heard they don’t give much? |
| make sure you know the goa requirement to keep merit for 4 years. |
| If you are in Kelley direct admit, go there. Best reputation. |
Unless she is direct admit to Smeal, I'd take IU-Kelly. |
| Just chiming in to suggest checking out Towson thoroughly. My initial reaction was the same when considering schools for my kid a few years ago, but I've come to learn it's a pretty good school! |
I'm a new poster ... just wanted to say that this is great! My kid is in a similar decision-making process. This is a good exercise! |
NP. She already knows she's been accepted to other schools she has clearly told you she prefers to Towson. She also knows you can pay for OOS up to a point. You do realize that if any of the other schools, or maybe several, are options at just $12,000 more/year (AND the FA packages are acceptable), but you push her into Towson, she may develop a serious case of "I could have gone to X but my parents made me go here instead"? That's a recipe for her to dislike, and possibly not care as much about working hard during, her college career. Tell your DH to push Towson only if he's ready to deal with a student who might spend four years resentful about her parents pushing the one place she had clearly said she didn't want. And yes, "embarrassing" is an OK reason at this point for her to want to leave the state. Consder--as an earlier PP rightly noted -- the actual "fit" of schools. If Towson is the wrong fit, the $$ you save, especially if you could have swung the costs of another school, will come at a high cost in her relationship with you, and possibly her relationship to academics while she's there. |
OP—please hear this. Your DD does. It want to go to Towson. She will be “embarrassed” to go there. (Her words as told to us by you.) I know you want a good ROI, but if you make her go to a school she expressly doesn’t want, she may be a lot more likely to drop out of school bc she hates it so much that she can’t bear to be there. And that ROI will not be so great. You have said you have the money to send her elsewhere (even though it will be tight), so IMO, that is your answer. |
That should be “Your DD does NOT want to go to Towson.” |
I'm not that PP but one who just mentioned "fit" and this is not just a thought exercise, it's crucial to choosing based on more than the cost of a school. I've had friends, and my DD (recent college grad) has had friends, who did not look at whether they actually wanted to LIVE at their college for four years of their young lives, did not did not delve into how the classes and major programs were structured and what they'd actually be doing with their time for four years of study, etc. I'm amazed how many threads on DCUM are entirely about costs and give the impression that no students or parents think to ask much about curriculum structure, ease of taking courses across departments, colleges' processes for helping students who need academic--or just as important, mental health--help, etc. etc. Those things all matter. Your kid has to live at this place and navigate its academic and social structures for four years. To be clear, I"m speaking generally and not bashing OP, who seems to be trying to win a money discussion with her DH. But wow, his site overall often comes across as not looking very hard into anything more than costs and where schools fall on "ranking" lists. |
I think the assumption is that kids are resilient and will thrive anywhere. Not sure if that’s true. |