Moved to small town for my cheating wife

[Anonymous]

Despite pressure from the affair partner to have an abortion, my wife and I decided to proceed with the pregnancy, we would do couple's counseling, and with the affair partner's blessing, I would adopt the child once born (which he accepted.)

Huh? If you are married, the child would be legally yours. There would be no reason to "adopt." You sound non-American.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Despite pressure from the affair partner to have an abortion, my wife and I decided to proceed with the pregnancy, we would do couple's counseling, and with the affair partner's blessing, I would adopt the child once born (which he accepted.)

Huh? If you are married, the child would be legally yours. There would be no reason to "adopt." You sound non-American.

Sounds like a troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here - two people telling me made up/troll. Wtf, this is 100% genuine.

I will believe you but you have to understand that for 99.9% of people they can’t fathom this being reality. It is literally a WTF scenario. And the other WTF is that you just willingly kept going down this path. Again this sounds like a talk show plot from the 90s.

[Anonymous]

Wait until that kid gets a DNA test.

If true, she has a personality disorder and all that shit is an act. And she's made you a literal cuckold.

She doesn't respect you. She liked the other guy way more.

Now go get some self respect.

[Anonymous]

Troll or not, moving to a small town is a culture shock. It is going to be a lot more insular, not a Hallmark movie.

[Anonymous]

OP, when was the last time you had your testosterone checked? Seems to me like we are dealing with a weak pathetic man here. Man up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Despite pressure from the affair partner to have an abortion, my wife and I decided to proceed with the pregnancy, we would do couple's counseling, and with the affair partner's blessing, I would adopt the child once born (which he accepted.)

Huh? If you are married, the child would be legally yours. There would be no reason to "adopt." You sound non-American.

Wow I didn’t know that if your wife got pregnant from a different man while married to you the child would be legally yours. I guess after the child is born then you can ask for a DNA test and remove all legal responsibilities correct?

[Anonymous]

2 thumbs down. Try again. You really expect us to believe that 1 man off the bat would give up his parental rights and another man who was cheated on would happily adopt the guys baby as a lifetime reminder his wife is a h*? 😂

[Anonymous]

Start finding your own interest and hobbies in the new town. Surely she must know people there which is why she wanted to move back.
Become friends with her friends’ husbands, see what they do for fun that sounds interesting to you and ask to join in.

Work on living your life for you, not for your wife or kids.

[Anonymous]

I cried reading your adoption of your you gest child. OP you are a very kind man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I cried reading your adoption of your you gest child. OP you are a very kind man.

That's a terrible decision.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Despite pressure from the affair partner to have an abortion, my wife and I decided to proceed with the pregnancy, we would do couple's counseling, and with the affair partner's blessing, I would adopt the child once born (which he accepted.)

Huh? If you are married, the child would be legally yours. There would be no reason to "adopt." You sound non-American.

Wow I didn’t know that if your wife got pregnant from a different man while married to you the child would be legally yours. I guess after the child is born then you can ask for a DNA test and remove all legal responsibilities correct?

Actually, no, not in most states.

[Anonymous]

I don’t feel sorry for you one bit. You’re her doormat and she knows it. I know you don’t want to hear this, but lawyer up and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here - two people telling me made up/troll. Wtf, this is 100% genuine.

Sorry OP somebody says that on every single post. So annoying

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

Etc. etc. etc.

OP, I know you said that you do not want to leave your wife due to your children but my god (!), this woman has put you through so much already…..and now this??

In all honesty, you are sacrificing EVERYthing for this person.
This person who has caused you the worst kind of emotional pain known to mankind. 💔
What does it take for you to live the life that you deserve?