Raise Your Hand

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but by certain I mean >99%. There is no certainty in life.

[Anonymous]

I found out my DW cheated a couple years after we married (threesomes with a married man and his AP). I had suspected this for a while and it took a year before she finally admitted it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

Lying to your fiancees face is great?

You, sir, are gross.

[Anonymous]

I'm certain. I'm 53 and DH is 65. He would definitely find it "too much trouble," lol, and isn't all that interested in sex anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone with a raised hand is naive af.

Hmm. This assumes everyone cheats and they don't.

However, I won't claim that I know for certain my spouse hasn't. It would be out of character, but I know of more than one couple where the cheater didn't seem like the type.

So I will say I don't think so and I hope I don't have to learn differently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

It's amazing that you think anyone believes this nonsense.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think he has but there’s no way to know for sure. I agree it’s kind of naive to think you can say with 100% certainty that your partner has never strayed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

It's amazing that you think anyone believes this nonsense.

It's true and it bothered you enough to respond. I've posted about it before. My then fiancee lived in a group house. She was sent to the UK on a long work assignment (2 months) and I had many things in her room since we pretty much lived together 50% of the time. I went over there to get some of these things and the next thing you know I'm banging Sarah in her bed. This went on for about a month until we both got it out of our system. We do a group beach trip every year with her and her family to this day. It's never been spoken about and as far as I know she hasn't told anyone. My wife would be wrecked if she knew.

[Anonymous]

We’ve been married 36 years and I’ve never had a reason to think he has cheated. I know I haven’t but I’m sure he wonders too. We still have a very active sex life so neither of us is deprived.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

It's amazing that you think anyone believes this nonsense.

It's true and it bothered you enough to respond. I've posted about it before. My then fiancee lived in a group house. She was sent to the UK on a long work assignment (2 months) and I had many things in her room since we pretty much lived together 50% of the time. I went over there to get some of these things and the next thing you know I'm banging Sarah in her bed. This went on for about a month until we both got it out of our system. We do a group beach trip every year with her and her family to this day. It's never been spoken about and as far as I know she hasn't told anyone. My wife would be wrecked if she knew.

More penthouse nonsense

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

It's amazing that you think anyone believes this nonsense.

It's true and it bothered you enough to respond. I've posted about it before. My then fiancee lived in a group house. She was sent to the UK on a long work assignment (2 months) and I had many things in her room since we pretty much lived together 50% of the time. I went over there to get some of these things and the next thing you know I'm banging Sarah in her bed. This went on for about a month until we both got it out of our system. We do a group beach trip every year with her and her family to this day. It's never been spoken about and as far as I know she hasn't told anyone. My wife would be wrecked if she knew.

More penthouse nonsense

Whatever you need to tell yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

Are they still friends? The “best friend” part is the low blow. I don’t know that she would forgive you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:51 year old man here married 20 years. I've never touched another woman since we have been married. But, when we were engaged I did sleep with her best friend about 20 times.

Gross

Actually it was great.

Are they still friends? The “best friend” part is the low blow. I don’t know that she would forgive you.

Ah, you answered my question. Sounds like you are pretty proud of it, somehow.