| My sibling earns 40k a year. It all goes to rent. They get welfare. They have a few kids, none in private school. |
When did you buy your house? Did you have student loans to pay off? How much? How much was daycare when your kids were little, 20 years ago? |
People don’t get more clueless than this. |
| Gotta think it would be tough with 2 x $50K incomes and two kids in daycare. Say $1.5K per month each on the low end you're spending $36K per year of post tax monies on childcare alone. |
Boomers and gen-x live in a bubble. You have no idea how much costs have skyrocketed since you were starting out decades ago. |
Wow low paid people who don't go work for the government must be real stupid to turn that down. |
Right? And if OP doesn't like the idea of working for the government they can always increase their income by becoming a neurosurgeon or a CEO. |
Yeah we used to say that too. Every gen feels the same (I.e., we are so fked and it’s your fault!) -boomer |
Hahaha oh really? Boomers used to blame who? The greatest generation? When they inherited the strongest economy the world has ever seen? Please tell me about how you struggled. |
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We did it when we first got married and had our first kid. I stayed home, so no child care costs. Lived in a smaller house right outside the beltway, and had one car payment. DH was still able to contribute a good bit to his $401k. We didn’t travel much (stayed at family member’s beach house once a summer) and I bought most kid items/clothes secondhand.
Friend had 4 kids in an older townhouse in our same area, one salary under $100k, and they managed just fine, too. |
Stop making sweeping generalizations about entire generations. I’m a late Gen Xer and you are living in a bubble if you buy the idea that boomers and Gen-Xers are all well off. And we have all experienced the cost of living increases in this country. We bought a small house in 2009. We def consider ourselves lucky. But it’s a 2200 sq ft house that most DCUMers would call a sh$t shack. Our cars are all over (or close to )10 years old. My kids have been to like 1/10 of the places most DCUMers claim to have taken their kids to on this board. Save your contempt for the cooperations and lawmakers who don’t give a F about the middle class and are more concerned about quarterly profits. |
That’s why one person stays home with kids |
Huh, news to me. I'm a federal employee with a master's degree and I make 80k. |
Exactly. I am a 50+ gen xer who lives in a sh*t shack on the eastern side of MoCo and who also makes under 100k a year as a federal employee. We could afford the house because we bought at the bottom of the last recession. |
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Gen Z has the lowest birthrate in US history, around the birthrate of the great depression.
They are affording to live by having fewer children. |