Stuck in text chains with unidentified people

[Anonymous]

Google the numbers or try whatever the free version is of white pages. If there are out of area area codes, you can at least find out where they’re from which May clue you in.

[Anonymous]

Enter the numbers in Cash App.

[Anonymous]

No one memorizes numbers anymore. You got a new phone & lost your contacts (ugh, how annoying). Can everyone please text their name? I bet lots of people are missing a bunch of folks' on the threads names & people will be secretly glad.

[Anonymous]

If it is a whole group I don’t know, I just identify myself and ask others to do the same.

If I am just missing a few, I ask the friend (in the group) I’m closest to.

[Anonymous]

Don’t say the new phone thing. It’s an other lie that’s going to mess you up later.

Ask someone you know privately or be direct in the group text.

I’m embarrassed saying this but there are some numbers I never saved and now forgot who’s who. Can everyone please reply with their names so I can organize my contacts?

[Anonymous]

Yes, this similar thing just happened on a text and people were speaking up— who is this? Etc. I also found it annoying that it was started.

[Anonymous]

I personally don’t need to know who everyone is—it’s like an email blast to whatever group (school, sport, etc). I don’t understand why it’s important to know who everyone is in a text chain—if you were friends with whoever, you would already know their phone number.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just text that you have no clue what happened, your phone suddenly lost all its contacts, would everyone mind sending a text with just their name so you can save their number again.

This. Obviously.

[Anonymous]

I hate text chains. I am on one that is "third grade moms" and it feels like everyone is trying to be witty and cute. It feels like public speaking to respond to all these people. I don't speak unless I have something important to say and I hate big groups, I prefer to socialize one on one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"hey I got a new phone and lost all my contacts. Can everyone lmk know they are?"

that's a lie, you don't lose contacts from your phone since 2003, its insulting basically saying you all aren't important enough to have been saved in my phone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Text something like this to the group:
Hi, this is ****, mom to ****. My apologies, but I’m having trouble matching phone numbers and names. Could everyone on the chain send a quick text identifying themselves? I would really appreciate it!

(Some other People will appreciate this.)

Yes. Much quicker than sleuthing, and honestly, you won't be the only person to benefit from this!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"hey I got a new phone and lost all my contacts. Can everyone lmk know they are?"

that's a lie, you don't lose contacts from your phone since 2003, its insulting basically saying you all aren't important enough to have been saved in my phone.

No it definitely still happens. Please don’t assume Verizon is competent bc you will look ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"hey I got a new phone and lost all my contacts. Can everyone lmk know they are?"

that's a lie, you don't lose contacts from your phone since 2003, its insulting basically saying you all aren't important enough to have been saved in my phone.

No it definitely still happens. Please don’t assume Verizon is competent bc you will look ridiculous.

DP, but I wouldn't believe it. I don't get the need or the purpose for the lie, anyway. There is no faux pas in not immediately saving every phone number to your contacts; it doesn't mean the person isn't important. That's so stupid.

[Anonymous]

I’m so glad you started this OP! Sorry about your problem, but it reminded me to send a group text to the “5th grade moms” group I was just added to last week. I said “hi, in case anyone is trying to match the number to a name, this is Sara, mom to Lily” and everyone followed! Hurray. Makes it much easier that I thought to do this now.

[Anonymous]

Use WhatsApp or Google Chat like civilized people.