Men, what can I do to be more attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you Asian? A subset of white men are really into Asian women.

No, she has dark hair. An Asian woman wouldn't think her race makes her unattractive; she'd be batting away gross white guys.

Plus in my personal experience >>> Asian women - actually just Asian people in general just age at a much slower pace than everyone else.

So if OP is Asian, she likely may not have made it to her physical prime yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here. Not sure why you think men care about glasses. You mentioned you're petite so that's a big plus in your column. Be fun and low maintenance and men will like that. I'd drop the "dog child" term, unless you're with some super pet-lover. Sounds weird to me as a non-pet person.

I love to read also, but I don't think most men will care about that. I've never been with my buddies and anyone spoke highly of a woman for that reason.

Men . . . Barf!

This is exactly why I’ve stayed single all my life. I didn’t mind being appreciated for my petite but curvy in the right places body, or my pretty face, or my excellent blow jobs. At one point I didn’t even mind fawning and pretending I liked their sports or music or whatever.

But I couldn’t stand having my intelligence go unremarked on, or worse, being mansplained about things I knew 10x better than them.

Men are the universe’s joke on women.

Oh please, this is just the insecure DCUM types. My DH filtered by education and specifically messaged me about my phd topic. Sure I also had cute pictures but so did hundreds of others.

[Anonymous]

Squats, Peleton, rollerblade, ice skate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here. Not sure why you think men care about glasses. You mentioned you're petite so that's a big plus in your column. Be fun and low maintenance and men will like that. I'd drop the "dog child" term, unless you're with some super pet-lover. Sounds weird to me as a non-pet person.

I love to read also, but I don't think most men will care about that. I've never been with my buddies and anyone spoke highly of a woman for that reason.

I’m a pet person, it still sounds weird. Drop that schtick and everything that comes with it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here. Not sure why you think men care about glasses. You mentioned you're petite so that's a big plus in your column. Be fun and low maintenance and men will like that. I'd drop the "dog child" term, unless you're with some super pet-lover. Sounds weird to me as a non-pet person.

I love to read also, but I don't think most men will care about that. I've never been with my buddies and anyone spoke highly of a woman for that reason.

Men . . . Barf!

This is exactly why I’ve stayed single all my life. I didn’t mind being appreciated for my petite but curvy in the right places body, or my pretty face, or my excellent blow jobs. At one point I didn’t even mind fawning and pretending I liked their sports or music or whatever.

But I couldn’t stand having my intelligence go unremarked on, or worse, being mansplained about things I knew 10x better than them.

Men are the universe’s joke on women.

Maybe your intelligence is unremarkable? You seem a bit narcissistic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here. Not sure why you think men care about glasses. You mentioned you're petite so that's a big plus in your column. Be fun and low maintenance and men will like that. I'd drop the "dog child" term, unless you're with some super pet-lover. Sounds weird to me as a non-pet person.

I love to read also, but I don't think most men will care about that. I've never been with my buddies and anyone spoke highly of a woman for that reason.

Eh, you can find something attractive or admirable about a partner even if it doesn’t meet the level of locker room bragging.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here. Not sure why you think men care about glasses. You mentioned you're petite so that's a big plus in your column. Be fun and low maintenance and men will like that. I'd drop the "dog child" term, unless you're with some super pet-lover. Sounds weird to me as a non-pet person.

I love to read also, but I don't think most men will care about that. I've never been with my buddies and anyone spoke highly of a woman for that reason.

Men . . . Barf!

This is exactly why I’ve stayed single all my life. I didn’t mind being appreciated for my petite but curvy in the right places body, or my pretty face, or my excellent blow jobs. At one point I didn’t even mind fawning and pretending I liked their sports or music or whatever.

But I couldn’t stand having my intelligence go unremarked on, or worse, being mansplained about things I knew 10x better than them.

Men are the universe’s joke on women.

Oh please, this is just the insecure DCUM types. My DH filtered by education and specifically messaged me about my phd topic. Sure I also had cute pictures but so did hundreds of others.

Ha! I did that once and she accused me of faking an interest in the topic (which was also my college major), and stopped talking to me. It was funny later when I became friends with her family through other connections. Her sister said that was unsurprising behavior for her.

[Anonymous]

OP, you don’t describe what your body looks like - the main factor in initial physical attraction. Are you fat?

[Anonymous]

Stop saying dog child. 🤮

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here. Not sure why you think men care about glasses. You mentioned you're petite so that's a big plus in your column. Be fun and low maintenance and men will like that. I'd drop the "dog child" term, unless you're with some super pet-lover. Sounds weird to me as a non-pet person.

I love to read also, but I don't think most men will care about that. I've never been with my buddies and anyone spoke highly of a woman for that reason.

Men . . . Barf!

This is exactly why I’ve stayed single all my life. I didn’t mind being appreciated for my petite but curvy in the right places body, or my pretty face, or my excellent blow jobs. At one point I didn’t even mind fawning and pretending I liked their sports or music or whatever.

But I couldn’t stand having my intelligence go unremarked on, or worse, being mansplained about things I knew 10x better than them.

Men are the universe’s joke on women.

We don't care about your "intelligence" not least because you think your academic credentials signify intelligence.

If you didn't have bewbs and a v, men wouldn't have any use for women at all, and the last thing we'd want to do is talk to you about things you think are "intelligent".

[Anonymous]

Well put together, is what I notice first. Carry yourself with a little pride.