Close friend made a pass?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband and I are very close friends with another couple. Recently the other husband said to me that he wishes that he had met me before meeting his wife and that we would have been great together. He may have been a bit over served that night but his goodnight hug was more than just a normal hug. A few days later I told my husband and he laughed it off saying that the guy had great taste and had had too much wine. People can say stupid things when over served but this still feels a bit creepy. My husband said just let it lie and that if it happens again he will deal with it. His wife and I are great friends and I have no plans to say anything to her but I do feel sorry for her. If he does really feel that way about me I’m not sure I want to stay friends.

what about the hug was too much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:objectively, who is hotter between his wife and you?

OP obviously.

[Anonymous]

OP, have you considered banging the guy? Just don’t tell your husband or his wife. It doesn’t matter. It’s just sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, have you considered banging the guy? Just don’t tell your husband or his wife. It doesn’t matter. It’s just sex.

You do this in every. Single. Thread. Or ask for juicy details. You need therapy. Or time away from the screen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, have you considered banging the guy? Just don’t tell your husband or his wife. It doesn’t matter. It’s just sex.

You do this in every. Single. Thread. Or ask for juicy details. You need therapy. Or time away from the screen.

Well, for you to think that must mean you’re on the Relationship forum a whole lot. What are you missing at home?

[Anonymous]

Let it go. I was hit on by my friend's husband, once. She noticed and probably said something to him because he's been super well behaved since.

It happens, and all it means is what he said: that he genuinely likes you. That's an acceptable feeling to have, surely? Better than disliking you, right? He's probably not going to act on it further than that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let it go. I was hit on by my friend's husband, once. She noticed and probably said something to him because he's been super well behaved since.

It happens, and all it means is what he said: that he genuinely likes you. That's an acceptable feeling to have, surely? Better than disliking you, right? He's probably not going to act on it further than that.

Well, that and that he wants to bang her silly.

But lots of men feel that way about women who are not their wives. His fault was making it known.

I agree with your husband on how to handle.

[Anonymous]

OP - you aren't special. Don't believe you are special to him. He's a guy. He's sexual. Sexual towards all women, to some degree, which is what your your husband understands about the situation. Don't add drama. If you quietly want to steer your social interactions to interact less with him, aok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:objectively, who is hotter between his wife and you?

Doesn’t matter. She me the hottest woman in the world and I will show you a man tired of phucking her.

Man here- my wife has always been very hot for her age but I’m definitely not tired of her. Unlike many women she likes sex and often makes the first move. To OP I’d not worry about it. He obviously likes you but the liquor led him to say something stupid. Odds are good he doesn’t even remember it.

[Anonymous]

These responses are so amazing to me bc when I posted about a friend DH who put his hand on my ass while overserved, the unanimous cry was to dump the couple & never speak to either again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These responses are so amazing to me bc when I posted about a friend DH who put his hand on my ass while overserved, the unanimous cry was to dump the couple & never speak to either again.

One is a comment and a hug. One is sexual assault.

[Anonymous]

Get over yourself, OP. He was drunk. Let it go unless it happens again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These responses are so amazing to me bc when I posted about a friend DH who put his hand on my ass while overserved, the unanimous cry was to dump the couple & never speak to either again.

Are you that lacking in critical thinking skills?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These responses are so amazing to me bc when I posted about a friend DH who put his hand on my ass while overserved, the unanimous cry was to dump the couple & never speak to either again.

These are not the same thing.

[Anonymous]

OP, you passed the test. Your husband asked him to make a pass to see what you would do.

Just kidding!
I think you handled it well. Anf your husband is a smart and levelheaded guy. I wouldn’t say anything to the wife. It’s great that you told yiur DH and just let him know if it happens again.