Oh absolutely not! This is more about my theory as to why absenteeism is higher in elementary school. But I'm going to push back on your assertion that it is a parenting failure. If absenteeism is caused in part by financial difficulties, that isn't parenting failure. That's a society failure. Our has a tendency to avoid responsibility for policies that have harmed individuals by blaming individuals for the impacts of those policies. Also parenting skill is related to economic security. Somebody who has all their needs met is going to be able to parent better than somebody who does not. |
But look at low SES Asian communities. They also lack resources, but they managed to figure it out. So much so that many of them end up at TJHSST. Education needs to become a priority. These kids aren’t walking ten miles uphill in the snow to school. Everyone can get there if it matters enough to them. |
I work at a public library and I'm shocked at the number of school aged kids who come in with their parents during school hours. I used to make conversation to see if they were homeschooled, sick, on their way to a doctors appointment, etc, but since the vast majority of them are just not going to school that day because parent or kid didn't want to make it happen, so I just act like it is normal now. |
I’ve heard this too. Lots of kids at underperforming schools are skipping class to spend the day at our public libraries. |
It has everything to do w/Covid. Shutting down the schools created a new mind set that didn't allowed the perception that going to school wasn't that important. Just another fallout I suppose...maybe it'll get back on track, but it'll take some time for sure... |
I wonder if the policies of retakes/50% minimum score demotivates some (obviously not all — I am sure it helps more than it hurts) kids with regard to attendance in middle/high school – they know that if they miss something, they can make it up.
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Yeah, this trend isn’t surprising at all. For one thing, parents watching virtual school saw how much time was wasted (& school was only 4 days a week for an entire school year). Second, schools were completely closed (not even virtual school happening) for months in spring of 2020, and parents were basically told it was no big deal re: learning… they’d make up for the lost instruction during the next school year (which, predictably, was total BS). So yes, parents & kids got the idea that attending school isn’t all that important for several reasons. Plus what PPs said: adults don’t want to go back to the office, either. |
Right, but the lesson of the pandemic is the in-person school DOES matter. The test scores, the behavior and mental health issues, the widening equity gap... it's all proof. I guess I'm just flummoxed that people don't send their kids to school. The damage to the kids not being sent is heartbreaking, as is the damage being done to the remaining kids, who have to deal with the disruption and lack of forward motion in learning. |
Yes, the lesson of the pandemic is that in-person school matters a lot, as evidenced by all of these outcomes. The message of COVID sent by our leadership is that school is not that big a deal and lost learning can be made up easily down the line. |
Exactly. You said it much better. And remember, when schools did, in fact, "re-open," the schools didn't actually care if you came or not...at a certain level they were happy kids weren't coming to school. That's not debatable. |
Families in SA got the Covid message that attendance doesn’t matter, but not those in NA? |
Why are they going to the public library but not public school? I’m really interested because that doesn’t sound like a parent who doesn’t care. |
It’s sarcasm because there’s NO WAY this is happening in shocking numbers. |
I believe (and had a teacher say this) that there’s enough leeway in the policy that students can get 0% for cheating or for missed work due to unexcused absences. There are consequences, but a kids who’s not going to school on a regular basis probably doesn’t care and doesn’t have a guardian who cares either. |
I believe. Also I am pretty sure that if a student fails a class, they go to summer school, which is online, which means they can just cheat and pass. |